ok so about a month and a half ago, i abruptly broke up with a guy that was very active with me and made it seem like i was really sexy and atractive and etc. all of my guy friends were all over me and i could tell they wanted me really badly when i was with him.
but its a little different now.
ive only hooked up with one guy since, and i was drinking too much anyway.
am i somehow less atractive now?
im about 5'3 105 pounds and ive heard im pretty hot.
but does being single make me less desireable?
im having serious self image problems. i consider myself pretty knowledgable with this sort of thing, but with myself, i really dont know what to do!
im getting really horney and lonely,
please help.
Oh go ahead and act cocky! Guys really do not mind a fetching 'smartass' especially if she winks at them while she's being cocky and full of herself. Just make sure they get this message "I'm FUN!"
This is the biggest problem with girls, stop thinking if you are hot or not. You can't really change it. People will be attracted to you if u think and act like you are. Stop beeing so depressed, maybe those kids dont approach you because they think that u r too good for them (like higher class, and they think they dont have a chanse) Another this is that if ur exBF is friends with them they wont be approching you just because its a friends thing.
Dont worry about how you look, personally i dont think anyone is ugly but that is just me, however you look how you look for a reason, you are how you are for a reason, you just need more self confidence from the sound of it, such as when you were with your ex-BF you sound as if you were very confident about how you are, you just need to get that confidence back hun, thats all :)
thanks guys,
mabey your right.
but i dont wanna sound cocky or anything or act full of myself.