As a women- I would laugh and laugh! Unless your man is either really small or hung like a horse, your not going to feel a difference in a dildo. A dildo is made to simulate an average sized dick, it won't even feel like your man because its not paired with his unique body movements- so ultimatly it is pointless. It might make some people feel better to know that it was a gift from the heart (or hard on), but that is a mental thing-not a physical one.

By "mental thing" i mean that it is more in the mind than the body- I just wanted to clarify so people won't think I am trying to make fun of anyone.

I think I'd laugh at first and probably wonder what he was on when he did it. lol.

But I'd still accept it. I mean the only reason I have one of my dildos is because it was roughly the size of him and that's what got me used to him and made the sex not painful. So hey, why not.

I would love a gift like that!!! to me it's an intimate and personal thing to give. If I had a partner who gave me one of those it would mean we could be 'together' even if we were apart and when I pleasured myself with it, it would feel like him... also I could tell him I used it and imagined he was there and he would like that too!!

Funny, my wife and I just had a conversation about the same subject yesterday.

Of course I'm a guy, but I can tell you what her reaction was.

First of all, I brought the subject up right after we had finished having sex. It always seems like that is the best time to discuss subjects related to sex. Also, keep in mind that she already has some toys including a dildo. She has told me on occasion that she thinks the dildo that she has is too big compared to me.

I had bought her a sex toy for Christmas, so I non-chalantly mentioned that the place that I bought the toy also had a build your own dildo kit. At first she had a puzzled look on her face. Then I explained that you would make a mold of my penis and then form a homemade dildo from that mold. Well, she seemed to get very interested and asked if I had bought the kit. I answered no and she genuinely seemed dissapointed! We joked about her having a copy of my erect cock for when I'm not around, or for later in life if my equipment doesn't work as well anymore. Seemed like it would be a good idea to make a copy NOW. I think if I bought the kit, she'd want to help in the making of the mold and dildo rather than me doing it alone and presenting the finished product.

One of the biggest advantages we discussed about having it around, was that it could be inserted and I could give her oral at the same time. I explained that that is the one thing that I can't do is be inside her and licking her clit at the same time. The idea of that made her very hot, so there may be a dildo building project coming up soon.

My advice would be (if you are afraid she'll think it's weird) bring it up kind of as a joke until you get a feel for her reaction, then talk more seriously about it if you think she's into it.

Hope this helps.

The kit that I saw was available from:
www.kenstwistedmind.com

He's got all kinds of really kinky stuff. My wife recieved the sex swing for x-mas.