There are many different shapes of breasts for me one is significantly bigger than the other. my advice is do what you feel is right for you. if its something you have thought about for awhile its your choice and nobody elses to decide for you. Just do your research well when it comes to looking for a Dr to do the procedure :)

Do what you think is the best thing for you, what will make you the happiest. That being said, I have to agree with the guys that you have talked to. Natural is way better in my opinion. I wouldn't date a woman with implants. However, I don't think that most guys feel the same way, most guys won't be as turned off by the idea as I am.

Odd shapes are normal and not wanting a potential future spouse to dislike them is not a good reason for implants. Implants are bad news in my opinion. All women have irregularities, ask Brandye.

I have ranted on this iin the past. Final answer is we women tend to be hypercritical of our own breasts. Part of being in a society that worships breasts, so we think we should be perfect. Some of us have globes and some have cones. It sounds like you are conical. Few women understand the importance of proper fitting of a bra. Mine are all custom made. Yes, expensive but I get comfort, and long use, that most women only dream of. S brands of bras are set farther apart and some cups are shaped bteer for one type than another. Get a good professional fit.

Sometimes with breast augmentation, the sensitivity is lost to the nipples. It is interesting to note that for the last few years breast reduction surgery has become more common than breast augmentation.

I can relate to your concern, Michelle.

I've always been very self-conscious in that area. It's hard to explain really how they look, but I'll try... first of all, when my nipples are 'hard', I feel that my breasts look very normal. However, that erectness only occurs when a sudden temperature change strikes me (such as the well-known 'she must be cold' situation), when I'm in the shower, and other random situations. But when they are not hard, they look very... rounded. My breasts take on a more semi-conic shape when they are relaxed.

As a woman in a large family and lots of exposure to the outside world, I have seen many breasts in my day. I have never seen anything like I am describing, thus bringing about my self-conscious attitude towards them.

Oh, they *kind of* look like the avatar Brandye has.

Don't laugh too hard get measured a a JCPenny store pick one where they fit for Bridal gowns too--they have a good idea what they are doing. A good site after having your measurements for GOOD bras is figleaves.com. Nice variety, all prices as you will see, thousands of Bras & Panties, and Bathing suits. They are a UK based store and ship international. Even their packaging for shipping is nicely done! Highly recommended!

For one thing, since when is C small? I'm a C cup, granted I'm a petite girl but most people consider my breasts on the bigger side. For another, everyone has different breasts. Breasts you see in porn are fake. You are different from your sisters, and its rude of them to make fun of you. However, take heart that they wouldn't make fun of you if they weren't insecure about themselves. You haven't heard complaints from guys because there is nothing wrong with you.

I've always wondered about my own....

I get my bras from Walmart, so nothing really fits well but it's at least cheap. I feel that I'm lucky to be fairly small and sensitive, and I wouldn't want to change anything, really. If somebody doesn't like them, they can just look elsewhere!

I cannot imagine wearing something fourteen hours a day that does not fit well. Especially something that is, basically, a constrictor band!

Well fit bras feel better and last longer. So I spend a lot upfront but in the long run probably no more than most who shop for names brands in department stores.

Fitting at Victoria's Secret? Guess what brand they will recommend. I have never had a VicSec bra but accept that some brands are better for some figure types than others.

[QUOTE=Brandye;190428]
Fitting at Victoria's Secret? Guess what brand they will recommend. I have never had a VicSec bra but accept that some brands are better for some figure types than others.[/QUOTE]

I find the brand "olga" is a great brand for full figured women. I don't mean fat at all, I mean women with curves, and big, round, boobs. Full figure bra's are meant for women who need "larger coverage", kinda like myself. :)

[quote=michelle2004;195121]one thing I hate is I have a small fat deposit under my arms that causes most bras to fold over just on the sides and it makes most bras uncomfortable....any recommendations....plus with the oblong breast shape most bras cups never seem to fit right.[/quote] If you have small fat deposits overhanging they are not fit properly. As far as which ones to accommodate your breast shapes? Try many manufacturers. Go to the local dept. store and speak with someone is the bra fitting dept. JC Penny actually does a good job; have them recommend some, try them on. Buy only one or two to try at home and see if they give you the support and shape your require, then buy more based on the fit. Figleaves.com has a nice selection.

I have a problem with my breasts too. Underneath I have rashs sometimes and it smells under there too. I wash under there and everything but it keeps happening. I'm worried if I have sex with someone it won't be that good if I have this problem.

[quote=KMB;196378]I have a problem with my breasts too. Underneath I have rashs sometimes and it smells under there too. I wash under there and everything but it keeps happening. I'm worried if I have sex with someone it won't be that good if I have this problem.[/quote]After you shower dry well and dust lightly with cornstarch or baby powder. This should stop it.

Some guys like big nipples, some dont. I do, a lot. The bigger the better.
One thing I do know about guys is that every single one of my male friends hates fake boobs.
I hate fake boobs, i think they look disgusting.
Some guys i've met are like "I dont mind, i prefer real obviously". Som guys either dont mind or they hate them. None of them actually like them.

Your friends are right, small ones are better than fake ones.
There's nothing wrong with small boobs, the bigger they are the saggier they get.

Dont get implants, they look disgusting & off putting.
If i got a girl home & she had fake boobs, id chuck her out of bed. Its one of the ugliest things anyone can do.

[QUOTE=michelle2004;187857]I think my breasts look odd. I am one of three daughters all close in age, so I have seen my sisters breasts during those years of fighting over a shared bathroom.

Anyways they used to tease me for my breasts size....they have been noteable smaller then theirs.

For starters they fit a 36C from Victoria's secret, but they don't feel the cup out completely, but this is what the staff has measured me for.

My breasts stick out from my body a good amount, but they are longer rather than round and filling. Also the areole is rather large and almost cover the entire breast.

I have not received complaints from any guys I have been with, but frankly I think they were just happy to get to "play" with them.

For me they seem awkward.

I am considering having implants, but every guy I have been with says NO, small and natural is better than big and fake. Now I want this for myself, but I don't want a potential spouse to me unhappy either.

Also I don't want to lose nipple sensitivity, sense that is one of my favorite parts of foreplay.

Help.[/QUOTE]

Barndeyes avatar contain a picture of the most amazing pair of boobs I have ever seen in my life. If only she told me where she got the pic from.

[QUOTE=vividgirl;189371]I can relate to your concern, Michelle.

I've always been very self-conscious in that area. It's hard to explain really how they look, but I'll try... first of all, when my nipples are 'hard', I feel that my breasts look very normal. However, that erectness only occurs when a sudden temperature change strikes me (such as the well-known 'she must be cold' situation), when I'm in the shower, and other random situations. But when they are not hard, they look very... rounded. My breasts take on a more semi-conic shape when they are relaxed.

As a woman in a large family and lots of exposure to the outside world, I have seen many breasts in my day. I have never seen anything like I am describing, thus bringing about my self-conscious attitude towards them.

Oh, they *kind of* look like the avatar Brandye has.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=browneyedgirl;189552]Breasts you see in porn are fake. [/QUOTE]

Are they? I watch A LOT of porn & on all the sites & videos i visit, I see probably about 3% of the girls have implants.

It depends on what type of porn you're wathcing, the plastic fake look is out, no one likes it. We want to see natural.

Michelle, in addition to Penney's, you may want to try getting measured at Nordstrom's. A relative of mine is in Texas and she swears by that store. Apparently they are very good at measuring and recommending.

I struggle to find a bra as every store seems to have a different idea of size and what is needed for each different size. They are all just incrementally larger sizes of the same shape made for smaller boobs. It would just be nice to have a sexy bra that fits every with wide enough straps to not look like an 'over the shoulder boulder holder', just something feminine but with support!

I found this site (http://www.007b.com/) to be really helpful when I was feeling self-conscious about my breasts. It is not pornographic at all, it just shows all different kinds of natural breasts and teaches us to not see them as weird or ugly, but to accept and love them :)