So I dated this girl for 2 1/2 years and broke up on good terms. We have remained that way since then and were considered to be only friends. This "friends" label went on for about 2 years since the break up, and just recently started to hook up again.
A few days ago, I took her out for dinner (which was the first time since dating), and ended up back at her place having sex. Aside from the amazing sex, she now wants me to be her "sex slave", "toy", "sex craze" or whatever she called it. She wants to send me hot pictures to my phone and wants to set up an all-day-sex-fest at her place the day after christmas.
Now I am not complaining at all, because I am currently single and her as well, but does this seem odd to anyone?? Do chicks actually keep their word, because I don't want to get my hopes up and have her change her mind. Any comments are appreciated.
Mon, 11/24/2008 - 04:57
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Is this odd??
Yes, dangerously odd.
Do not reciprocate by sending provocative photos of you either over the phone or through the internet. You just never know who will see these and how many times your photos may be forwarded and forwarded, etc.
This is just too weird for my comfort level. Be FWB with her if you want, but monitor what she does closely for awhile.
a little wierd isent it the guys who want to do this more? what was she like when u was dating?
> Aside from the amazing sex, she now wants me to be her "sex slave", "toy", "sex craze" or whatever she called it.
The question asked begs a good insightful answer: what was she like when dating? You know her, we do not. Do you think she is just horny and wants to have a FWB with you? Do you think this may be an attempt to restart the relationship? Either way, I would begin talking to her in order to know what she wants and whether you want the same thing. Communications is the key to any successful relationship.
> She wants to ... set up an all-day-sex-fest at her place the day after christmas.
"Why" is the question you should get an answer to. I'm not suggesting there is anything wrong with her sex-fest, only that you need to be sure both of you are going about this for the same reasons.
Answering RichieRich, she wasnt like this at all, granted it has been 3 years since we dated and any kind of sexual acts. It was just odd to me if she would keep her word. She was originally not like this at all. And all of a sudden she wants to do this. I am not complaining at all, but just looking for some insight.
And dancingdoc2, I have only talked to her a few times since hooking up with her, but I don't want to make it seem like I want to start something again. I just want sex at this point, but is also nice to know that she wants to come to me for great sex (in her words).