SAy Im dating a kinky chick and she wants to stick something in my bum, and does. Is it possible to damage the prostate by doing this? For a month afterward I would have a pain down there about 15 min after I ate, Not all the time though. I no longer have that pain, it went away.
my question is, can I be seriously messed up down there because of it? And can damage to the prostate affect your libido, mine has been low here for a while. It was fine (my libido) until I started worrying if I was alright. IS it mental?
For the record
-it was not enjoyable
-I had a pain every now and then afterward for about a month, about 15 min after eating
-There was no bleeding
-I for some reason am experiencing low libido and wondering if this can be a symptom of the object hurting my prostate or something
I have been very stressed and sleep deprived lately (common causes of low libido). The stress from worrying if anything is wrong with me might also be the case.
Causes of my stress:
-Worrying about being injured from this incident
- Bad grades in school
-No direction in life other then dreams
-bad game for about 3 weeks (nothing going well with women)
-WORK constantly, or lately
-No one has hopes for me, just expectations
- Friends who flake constantly that or who annoy the hell out of me
-me letter her do that and me constantly pondering if im gay which I am not and would hate to be (I love women way to much), and thats pissing me off. dont you love internal dialog.
So my question is:
IS it possible to mess up the prostate/libido by her doing anal stuff too you, or is this all in my head? And am I worring about something so stupid?
Is it possible for an object to mess up the prostate if its just hitting it? because there was no blood or anything and I felt fine immediatly afterward.
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-me letter her do that and me constantly pondering if im gay which I am not and would hate to be (I love women way to much), and thats pissing me off. dont you love internal dialog.
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That's stupid.
I have had a number of things stuck up my ass, i even do it to myself sometimes. I know damn well im not gay.
Having a woman stick things in you does not make you gay.
Sticking things in yourself does not make you gay.
You are not gay unless you have sexual feelings & emotional feelings towards the same sex. End of story.
It depends upon what was stuck in there. Her finger, notlikely; a broomstick, very likely. Or what was done with it. It is possible to damage a lot of things. It would be more likely that she tore a bit of skin or created a little hemorrhoid than damage your prostate.
If it continues to be irritated, you should have it checked because there is a possibility of infection there.
and, honey, you do not wierd is until you spend all weekend in an emergency room in a big city. All sorts of things are extracted from all imaginable cavities.
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