okay i need some help. My girlfriend thinks that we should have sex, but im nervous because she already had sex. It was with this kid who is a little fag anyway but thats not the point. I dont know if she'll think im good enough and thats what makes me nervous the most, plus im a virgin so it'll be my first time. I want to make it good for her as well
any advice


um, well, ask her what she likes. and using fag as an insult is not cool.
but anyways, dont be nervous, obviously she wants u. tlk to her.
dont worry about being good in bed or not thou it will make it harder for you if you decide you want to do it with her
Yea dude, "fag" is no good. If she doesn't know that you are a virgin, you better tell her or you'll end up looking like an ass! Take it slow, and just relax, things will go better if you just calm down and don't freak. If you try to be all cool, you won't be, and things will go horribly. You will most likly bust your load in under 1-3 minutes...thats cool. When you do, pull out, take off your condom, clean yourself up, kiss, wait for your dick to get hard again, put on another condom, and go for round 2!!!
Well do you want to have sex with her? If you don't, don't. Tell her you aren't ready, or tell her how you're feeling. If you do want to, then you should be honest with her about it being your first time. Don't worry about being "bad in bed" your first time. No one is a great lover to start out. Besides which, unless the guy she had sex with before was really experienced, he probably didn't know any better than you what he was doing. Just be attentive to what she likes, ask her what feels good, get her warmed up with lots of foreplay, and don't do it until you are comfortable with each other. You should also be using adequate protection (like condom + pill). Good luck with whatever you decide!
[QUOTE=osundayo;163267]um, well, ask her what she likes. and using fag as an insult is not cool.
but anyways, dont be nervous, obviously she wants u. tlk to her.[/QUOTE]
Wrong, fag is one of the best insults out there.
It should always be used for someone that's not liked.
A fag is something you smoke, right?
Virgins do not take the lead in sexual encounters. Period. So, buddy, just follow directions and SMILE when you say "Yes, ma'am!"
Or think about what it would be like to be called "Daddy."
erm tell her your a virgin and just go easy the important thing is to enjoy yourselves and being nervous will only make it worse
[QUOTE=Sirene;163304]Wrong, fag is one of the best insults out there.
It should always be used for someone that's not liked.[/QUOTE]
sure it is to some people i dont really care if someone says it, but its just a dumb insult.
[QUOTE=cyclefreak;163320]A fag is something you smoke, right?[/QUOTE]
In england a fag is also another name for a cigarette.
A fag would denote gay. aka faggot widely, internationally.
thank u guys
sorry about fag i just got caught up in the moment