For over a year now me and my girlfriend have had a great relationship in every way but one SEX
Im not saying the problem is she at all
Although she never seems to get horny, even after things she likes like massages and alike i wanna know if there is any reason???
And when we do have sex or play around with oral sex and/or fingering she never gets any stimulation
any help would be much appriciated thanx


Sounds like you are the one with the problem. If she does not want to teach herself there is nothing you can do. You have a decision to make.