I have been with quite a few partners, and I love sex. I kind of want to try a few more things though...I dont have any fantasies (which is a bit weird), except I LOVE the idea of the person i'm with being ridiculously turned on.
A lot of the guys I've been with, are older and more experienced than I am, even though I've done quite a lot for my age.
I just wanted a few Ideas that I an do....my only limitation is Scat and maybe Watersports, and threesomes cos of jealousy.
So far, I've done:
-Sex in A LOT of public places
-Anal
-Various positions. (Doggy, legs on shoulders, missionary, spooning)
-Filming it.
It really dosn't sound like much at all! So, is there anything else you can think of? I'd probably be up for it. I need to add stuff to the list.
try in front of others as they watch. Or try controll sex use whips chains. Try same sex there are litteraly countless ideas, sex is a vastly diverse thing just try beeing creative.
Try role playing,dress up and get in character.Try light bondage and body worship.Use objects like feathers and flowers to brush on your body.Being blindfolded would add mystery to this,as you would have to guess what object he's using.
WHY do you feel you have to add to your list? This isn't the Olympics, you know. No one's keeping score. No one's judging your performance for artistic ability or technical difficulty. You DON'T HAVE to do EVERYTHING.
One thing you do have to do is to kill off that jealousy because that's the mark of a loser with a weak ego.
That you don't have fantasies is BAD. Sorry but there's no other way of seeing it. Humans are the most sexual of creatures on the planet and the fact that you're not means something isn't right. Somehow, somewhen somewhere - you've turned your imagination and curiosity OFF. Explains why you're bored.
Forget about 'adding to your list' and work on starting up your Imagination and Curiosity instead.
lol i am sure by now you got some interesting ideas. But hell there is a second person involved in your sex (unless its masterbation). Maybe see what he wants to try fullfill some of there fantasys
I've done most of the things on that list with my wife and we both enjoyed it immensely. One thing that we have recently gotten into is control sex. We purchased restraints and blindfolds and spent hours exploring each others sensual and sexual boundaries. However, before hand we spent many hours communicating with each other on what we wanted out of this new 'adventure.' Control sex is how we are learning to get over our own trust, intimacy, and even jealousy issues. It has made our relationship stronger and healthier. I've found that spending hours learning, exploring, and mastering new sex positions is great and fulfilling and can lead to spontaneity and creativity. Looking at the position guide on this site with your partner and communicating what you want with each other would be where i would start because there are so many variations that will keep you busy for awhile.
Im not sure what else to do, my gf and I have been together for a while we both have a bit of jealousy towards another person in bed unless they were filimg it, and were sketchy about anal, weve done it in public and tried a bunch of different positions. any advice on stuff to try?
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That you don't have fantasies is BAD. Sorry but there's no other way of seeing it. Humans are the most sexual of creatures on the planet and the fact that you're not means something isn't right. Somehow, somewhen somewhere - you've turned your imagination and curiosity OFF. Explains why you're bored.
Forget about 'adding to your list' and work on starting up your Imagination and Curiosity instead.[/QUOTE]
All of this I know already....but i'm just not sure how to get turned on by anything. I dont have any major things i'm jsut dieing to do. My main turn on, is the fact im fulfilling someone elses fantasies, but I don have any of my own.
I suppose (am hoping), that by working on my 'list' i'll find something through this that makes me go 'omg. i just love that' and that will turn me on.
But really, im scared, and im worried, that I cant have any fantasies.
Yeah, well, FEAR just might be the reason why you have turned your imagination off.
Think body worship as opposed to erotic massage - let's see what your mind comes up with.