hey every1...just a smal problem...i think! its just that i never seem to be in the mood for sex.
my bf is really understanding and doesnt mind, but i cant see how it doesnt bother him just a bit. i hardly ever give him blow jobs or have sex, but he does lick me out n stuff more often.
firstly i know that sounds selfish, but from my point of view its lazyness, cuz its easy 2 just lie back and let him do it....ok it is selfish. i will sort that out, but there is a different reason for that, cuz i dont actually like giving blow jobs so i tend to use my hand more. im not makin myself sound to good here, but that something i can sort out on my own.
my main problem that i need help with is that i just dont seem to ever want sex. maybe that is becoause my bf doesnt turn me on, i have thought it mite be that...but i really love him, and at the same time dont think i would want it with anyone else.
we have had sex a couple of times, but it doesnt do anything for me, and he hasnt cum yet through it. so maybe that is sayin just stick to what is good?
but i would really like to enjoy sex, and id like my bf to aswel.
he has tried foreplay to turn me on, but i orgasm very quickly when the right thing is done, so after that i dont really feel in the mood for sex. especially as it does nothing for either of us.
please help