Hmm. So I'm not single, technically, since my bf has some past hurts he needs to heal over, and I'm more than willing to give it the time for this.
He doesn't want to be serious in the relationship, which is fine with me, since I never wanted to be serious in the first place either.
So now, basically I'm after the foreplay, and sex.
We both agreed that this is fine.
But what I want to ask advice on is this: How do I initiate a touch, a kiss, or something similar to this, since I hate sitting there uncomfortably, wasting time?
I know, I sound like a horribly horny person, but hey, when I can, and I want to, I want to use all the time I have. Nothing wrong with that...
If someone could give me tips please.
And another thing, he loves handjobs, and I want to make it spectacular for him. Some help in that area would be greatly appreciated. Thanks everyone.
If the relationship is based on both mutually wanting sex, stop waiting for him to make the move. If you want it then be the aggressor, and visa versa.
We women all have our signals that mean "yes, yes , YES!!" Mine is removing my shoes. If you do not want to be aggressive, you have to work out your own signal. If you want to be aggressive, then just touch him, or kiss him, or whatever.
Handjobs: advice can be found on the Sticky post covering this subject.
MNake the move. A passionate kiss is always (almost) acceptable. We have all been faced with the issue of really wanting him to ...... So, do it!
Handjobs are a rel specialty and I admire you looking to get better. Some ideas: take your panties off and use them, lightly. Or your bra. Surgical gloves with lots of lube. A condom with vaginal jelly in it slides nicely. Satin gloves. Hold his scrotum with one hand with fingers pressed at the back to help his prostate while rubbing with the other. Use all of your imagination.