Well my girlfriend will not let me perform oral sex on her. The reason is, is because her friends and such like implanted it in her mind that it was disgusting. Me and her are very sexually active and have done everything else but that. I don't want to force her to do anything, but I've never done it and i would like to try it because she would probobly like it. I also want to get better at it, because ive heard that most girls expect guys to be able to do it well. My question is really if i am right for wanting to try it or am I being umm idk selfish or sumthin. And if I am right then how should I get her to allow this.
Sun, 07/24/2005 - 06:28
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Not letting me perfrom oral
Figure this out. My girl never lets me go down there anymore. We've been together for 7 yrs today. and she always let me go down until we had a kid 2 yrs ago. She had a c section though. But ever since then she never lets me go down on her. And she use to luv it. Another weird thing I recently noticed just this month or so. She really dont want to go down on me now. and when she does it seems like she is just doing it to get it hard fast! so we can start having sex. Its almost like she has zero intrest in doing oral now both ways. I have no clue what could be wrong. I myself am very clean down there. I shave etc. This just happened last month with me, but she hasnt let me give her oral in sometime now. Any thoughts?
My GF was shy about her region there and thats what prevented me for a bit. But I did it once in the dark
, like a lost kid in a cavern didn't know what to do lol. Then the 2nd time I was still lost, but when she went down on me I grabbed her legs and pulled her up to me and finally got to see it in the light, although I still felt lost. Lot harder navigating with the tounge then the fingers lol.
Glad everything worked out for ya
thankx for the help she actually let me. I got her pretty horny and i had some sex dice.
And i said it wasnt gross ect.... She said she liked it alot. Mission accomplished.
Dear Led,
Heed the advice of MzMinx. She knows people. One demurral, though. You do have another option. If talking it out doesn't work, you can always start looking for another gf.
It really isnt as simple as right and wrong. It's not wrong for you to want to experiment with oral, but it's not wrong for her to be uncomfortable with it either. Whether it has to do with things she has heard from her freinds or her own fears (its very possible that she is just really self concious about the idea of it; taste etc.), she obviously has an aversion to the idea. That is somthing that you need to respect. I'm not saying that you should never broach the subject again however. It may just take time. Talk to her about it, ask her why she thinks its disgusting and dont let her get away with "It just is!" Once she starts talking about why it makes her uncomfortable, address her fears one by one. Now, after ALL of this, it is important to note that it's entirely possible that you wont be able to change her mind and in THAT event you're just gunna have to accept it. After a conversation or two and she STILL violently opposes the idea, letting it drop and moving it on would probably be the best idea. Hope this helped!