Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now, we have had sex for about 8 months, but we don't do it a lot. We are limited positions, since we don't want to get caught. Also we haven't found one that feels good for me.
Also he has tried fingering me before and go down on me, but it just never feels good. Even when i try and it for myself, i lose interest because i never find for myself what feels good, but i haven't tried to do that since 3 years ago or so, I kind of gave up.
I would appreciates the help
thanks
"Limited positions, since we don't want to get caught."What in the world does that mean?
As long as you are all bent up like pretzel, you will not find enjoyment. When you can get relaxed and have enough space to go at it, you can experiment. In the meantime, learn to masturbate; best sex education there is for women's satisfaction.
Limited like me on top of him. If someone walks in it doesnt look suspicious. It is hard for us to get alone time since my little brother is always home, he has no friends near where we live, and my parents are home at least 4 days a week. Ok with the maserbating though, what would be some tips that might feel good then?
thanks again.
You with your knickers off, straddling him and THAT does not look suspicious?
You need information.
Brandye, EvilEvilKitten, and I, have written many articles addressing the most common of concerns and problems. I suggest you begin by reading through the Index
There are three or four that discuss the various facts of the female orgasm and how to accomplish this.
I can pretty much guarantee that if someone walks in on you they will know what you are doing regardless of the position. This is just naive and trying to talk yourselves into being OK doing what you are doing.
If you have yet to to learn how to masturbate and to do so regularly and consistently, then you cannot expect to achieve one from your boyfriend. Each of us is responsible for our own. All anyone can hope to accomplish is to help our partner achieve his/her own. That said, only a few of the many sexual positions one can get into place a woman's vulva and pieces-parts in constant contact with the male body which is necessary if you want to generate friction. That said, what a skilled, knowledgeable, caring, lover will do is to reach around while stroking away in order to stimulate the clitoris and adjoining area.
I recommend that you go back to Square One, learn as much as you can about the male and the female anatomy and physiology, learn how to make out, why it is important, how to masturbate, when to begin foreplay, etc., et cetera, etc. and then move forward a little bit at a time instead of rushing headlong into this and fumbling around.