Hey everyone, i kinda have a predicament. See my girlfriend and i have been together for quite a while, a year this past october. Some of that time wasn't steady, we've been together steadily since july and it is wonderful. i'm 18 and she is almost 17 (in january). Well we fool around and are both virgins and have just recently tried having sex but she couldn't do it cuz it hurt more than she thought it would and was kinda scared so we have put that off for a lil while, until she's more ready.

But thats not the problem. I hear about a lot of girls not being able to get off but i know for a fact i can get her off, i've learned what she likes and how to do it so i can pleasure her. Thats what is mainly important to me cuz it makes me feel good knowing i make her feel good. She gives me handjobs and given me head a couple times for a couple minutes until we were interupted. But the problem is she has never been able to get me off. She has gone for quite a while and we fool around a lot. I stay hard the whole time and enjoy every bit of it even tho i never finish with her. I have no problems when i masturbate but she hasn't been able to get me to orgasm. She feels like she doesn't turn me on which is so far from the truth.

It wouldn't be a problem since i care more about getting her off more than me when we fool around but i want her to be able to get me to orgasm and i know she wants to too. Idk what the deal is, does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks