My wife and I have been in I guess you call it a swinging type of lifestyle. We talked about bringing in another women into the bedroom and we had our concerns as well and we ended up going ahead with it. We made sure we got tested and everyone who would get involved would be and that condoms were a must now.
I thought it wasn't right that I got to enjoy being with 2 women at the same time but I wasn't comfortable being in the same room with my wife while she is with another man. So we ended up finding some other couples and swapped around so she could be with 2 other men and I could be with 2 other women along with some other scenarios. We eventually did some standard 1 for 1 swapping as well.
Lately I've felt like although I have enjoyed this I'm not as interested with the lifestyle so much anymore. However my wife is still interested as we have continued. Although I'm not exactly unhappy with the current situation I am concerned of our relationship down the road. For example if I get bitter in the future or if one of us is only sexually satisfied in having sex with others to name a couple and it becomes a catalyst that could harm our relationship permanently. After all there is a 50% divorce rate and I would rather not walk down that road. I know that communication will be a key to make sure it doesn't go that way.
Am I simply over-analyzing all of this? Any suggestions on how I should address my concerns would be greatly appreciated.