im 19 and my girlfriend is 19. we live together and we have sex about every three days. thats not enough for me. i have only been having regular sex for about 8 months now and she has been for over 4 years. i was wantin to know if its normal for her to only want to have sex about every three days at our age. its buggin the hell out of me because im still pretty new at sex and i want more than every three days. i would kind of expect it a little more at our age living with each other. could it be related to her experience or am i doing something wrong?
Mon, 05/15/2006 - 01:03
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not enough sex?
Everyone is different. You're both normal...talk to her. Also, search around here for info
If you have not learned this important lesson to having a successful relationship let me give you two words:
1. Communication
2. Negotiate
The first was given to you in an excellent statement by Lackadaisical.
> we have sex about every three days. thats not enough for me.
You will have to work together to find a common ground or happy medium. Also, when one or the other of you is being more accommodating, sex need not be gung-ho. It can and perhaps should be low-key and more relaxed.
In between times, keep the romance and passion alive in other ancillary ways and then masturbate if need be to take care of daily stresses. Keepin the romance alive will make your romantic encounters more meaninful and passionate when they do occur.