I am not sure if anyone has experienced this or not, but my husband and I have been together for over three years now and our sex life is still going great, for me. He is still troubled with the fact that he does not expel enough "cum" and it is now really starting to bother him. We have a child together and another on the way, so I am getting my tubes tied after this and now sex will really be for fun. But he is becoming discouraged because it is always just a few drops and later, when he urinates, more will run out before his urine. He has asked a doctor about this situation and his answer was to drink more water. He has increased his water intake since July of last year and also cut down greatly on his smoking, but the out come is still the same. I am not worried about it, but to him it is very bothersome because he doesn't "shoot" like men should, as he puts it. I remind him that I do not care, but nothing is helping anymore. I may also add that is his penis is a little larger then most, he is about 10 and 1/2 inches long, so I sometimes think that maybe it just takes a lot longer to reach the top? Could that be right? He is thinking about taking some pills he found on the internet, but I really don't like the idea. Does anyone has any other advice on this topic or do we just have to deal with it? Thanks in advance and I hope we can find an answer.
Tue, 02/06/2007 - 03:13
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Not enough semen?
Tell your husband that the "normal" amount of ejaculate is about 1 tablespoon,saying that I'd bet that 90% of guys would take the 10inches of manhood over 3 tablespoons of semen!! LOL:D
Stay away from the pills on the internet! The best you can expect is a placebo with no effects on the body.
As men age, all muscles lose strength. This includes those muscles that shoot the ejaculate out. Stopping his smoking is a good step and other life style factors - sleep, diet, stress - can also have an effect. While twenty year olds may be able to squirt a few feet, the normal forty year old will not and with more age, it will just dribble out. The farther it has to go, the less power will be exhibited at the nozzle.
Clearly he is "capable" or you would not be pregnant! We women cannot understand some of the male hangups. The primary of these is length of penis and amount of ejaculate. We just want "enough" and would be happy to not get the drippies!
The doctors advice of "drink more water" is actually very good advice and sometimes solves this issue. There are other things that could be checked. Perhaps a visit to a good urologist is indicated for his peace of mind. If it bugs him too long or too much ha could make himself psychologically impotent.
Thanks for the input, he wants to wait on seeing a doctor and was a little concern that someone would say something bad about him on here. But he likes the advice given, thank you again. He hasn't been with many women, so he believes me when I say how wonderful his size is, but I do understand his concerns for the amount of cum produce. He is going to try to fully give up smoking before our daughter is born and he is not stressed at his new job. He isn't old at all, only 23, but he did inform me that he did ejaculate more when he was masturbating in his early teens. Again, this doesn't bother me, we have two kids and the sex itself is great, but I will do my best to reassure him that all is well and no matter what men say or what porns show, he is perfect for me. Thanks for the advice. :) And I really do enjoy this site.