Howdy all,
To get straight to the point. me and my bf have sex allot and he seems to enjoy it but he has never came. WHY? even when I intvited my friend for a 3some he loved it but didn't cum, is this a problem with me or me, There's no way I could bring the topic up with him.
Confused
Let me get this straight. You were able to bring another person into your bed, but you can't ask your bf why he doesn't come?
Ask him, end of story.
yeah wiseman is totally right w/ this one.
i mean bringing up a 3-some to me seems way more involved of a question than just...why dont you ejaculate?
its different when guys on here wonder why their girl doesn't b/c we are a lot more complicated when it comes to having an orgasm. for the most part...guys can orgasm easier than girls.
so anyhoo, yeah just ask him. even if you wanna just be like i want to taste you how come you never cum? or something like that.
Yeah... have more respect for yourself. And just ask him why he doesn't if you still wanna be with him... I personally wouldn't be with him.... sounds like there is no communication at all.
If its been a long relationship, then yes, you should ask him about it. If you're not open, then relationships can begin to take bad turns. I've been open with my girlfriend, and we've tried a lot of things, but if you were able to get a threesome, then you really need to ask him. Its apparent you talk, but not enough.
it could be that it takes him alot to actually bust, whether its a desensitivity due to something physical or something mental. personally, I last awhile simply because it takes a bit for bruce (my penis) to start feeling it. Hes just not all too sensitive.
Thanks for everyones help, Finally I found out he had been masterbating before I came over so basically there just was nothing left to give!
hmm try that one on for size!??!!
Pen (belladonna baby)
Masturbating or whatever will make him last longer. I'm surprised though that he's never ejaculated with you.
I'm with MIKE on that one. It's GREAT that he's masturbating before having sex, it does prove that doing that CAN help make sex last longer. However, i often jack off when i know i'm going to be having sex later in the evening, but i ALWAYS am able to have an orgasm.
You might want to find out what reallyturns him on, or try some new stuff to get him on the road to a great orgasm!
Feel free to email me with ideas on this!
Hey,
It sounds like i have a problem similar to pennylane's bf's. All the actions from making out to sex, but my penis doesn't feel stimulation at all when she tries to give me a hand-job or when we have sex (it's only happened once, but i was going at it for 45 min without much feeling...i started to feel a little at that point, but we were both getting tired). If someone has any advice on maybe increasing the sensitivity instead of telling her to ask him...maybe he doesn't know. I'd like to know as well. I have a post in pleasing him with that question as well.