Ok let me start by saying I don't normally go to strip clubs in the middle of the day but I have a buddy that's a manager at a local strip club. Anyway me and another buddy of ours went into his strip club to grab some lunch and hangout. Long story short, beautiful girls left and right and I wasn't aroused like I used to be. I have been in a funk for the last couple of years and as for my sex life..if it wasn't for the internet and baby oil, there would be no "sex life". I was wondering if my diminished libido could be due to my life being in a rut or should I be asking a Dr for a prescription or something.
Fri, 01/21/2011 - 23:49
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Not becoming aroused at a strip club.
I would say its due to your life beeing in a rut. Sex is atleast 90% mentalm Your mind set and emotions controll alot of how your body reacts. If your down and out of it your body will respond in kind. I would say just work on cheering up and let your body come around in its time.
Both. First, get yourself to a doctor and get a complete physical. And get yourself out of a rut. Change friends, activities, develop new interests.
I cannot imagine those places being turn-ons. The girls are window dressing and available for money. There are no feelings inside the front door. Still, I take your point and that needs to be addressed.
i have been aroused at strip clubs many times. Seldom trully gotten hot and heavy but it can get me in the mood if nothing else. But I have also dabbled with stripping before. Mostly just for the experiance I am told I am fantastic at it a naturel.
Ive worked as a driver for stripers many years ago, and they never did turn me on, sure some are beautiful, but workplace is not charming setting for them. I have always refused dances at the club, but have had some from friends and closer, that made me smile, when shes happy to do something like that for me and she expects nothing in return, its about how sexy she feels just by the way your drooling lol :P
Most amazing one was singing and dancing with such a beautiful voice I made her sing all evening. Some guy had told her to stfu years ago, and she would practice in the bathroom for years.
I recommend you go take nice walks everyday, change scenery, and go visit places you never been near you that have ppl around. If you want to meet someone, give yourself a goal, like today, every women you cross, your challenge is to put a smile on her face, or make her feel special in some way. Its something I love doing you see grumpy ppl all around, a few words or compliments, even a curtious door to open for someone, those smiles have direct effects on your surroundings, from there perceptions change.
GL and don't worry be happy!
ps : and a doctor should be the priority, but be carefull what pills he gives you, some turn you into zombies.