As many may know i had problems with orgasming from sex, and my girlfriend ad i are working on it...as in i'm abstaining from masturbation, and so far that's as far as this "working on it" has gotten...
Anyway, this morning when we woke up we were kind of in a randy mood, and started making out, but had very little time, so we decided to postpone things until this evening when her roommate was going to be out for the night. I teased her a little more that morning, then ended up eating her out. We left for class saying we'd pick things up where we left off. Tonight came and along with them came the excuses. She was too tired. This got me frustrated enough, but there's enough reason behind excuse. But then i went over to her place to talk to her for another minute (earlier was discussed over AIM), and she was hanging out with suitemates considering getting ready to go out with them for the evening to party. At that i was more than a little mad. so anyway, i've been spending the rest of the night pissed as hell and on edge just because i've been so sexually aroused for the whole day. What can i do about this since i can't masturbate to relieve this tension? i'm about ready to flip my lid, and she's not giving me any insight into when she might want to have sex again.
just an update on that whole situation. due to several complications, that relationship is now over, as some may have noticed me refering to my "ex" now rather than my gf. and by over, i don't mean over like i've meant in posts in the distant past, where we would get back together the next week. it's been done for three weeks now, and she and i are still not even on good enough terms to consider the "just friends" road yet. i am feeling much better now that things are over though. the relationship was extremely hard on me.
Dude, that sucks
yeah demon, i'm working on figuring that out right now actually. i'm still managing though, and i'm doing alright for the most part, so no need to worry.
Oh, and i did finally end up doing it myself by the way. it is of course her fault she missed out
Yeah Id definetly just masturbate, she lost her chance. I mean if you guys were already planning it for later that night, and then she's all "Im too tired" but is getting ready to go out and party?!?... doesn't make sense.
Did she orgasm when you ate her out that morning?? Then I guess she was feeling fine.
I dunno vagabond.... after all the stuff you've had to deal with, with her, I don't see how you manage it.
I guess that depends on how long you have been abstaining from masterbating and how long it's been since you've had any sex. I say get out the magazines and go for it solo. You were supposed to have sex anyway, right? I guess that's what I would do. But if that's not an option, just try to keep busy...go for a walk, watch a movie, take a COLD shower. Try to get your mind off it first. Then tell her how she made you feel tomorrow...