When ever we are having intercourse she never lets me rub her clitoris at the same time. The only time she ever lets me touch her clit is when i am giving oral ...and even then after about a minute she shuvs my head off and says stop she cant take it. help would be appreciated if anyone has any experience with this same situation.:D
Tue, 10/09/2007 - 22:23
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No rubbing her clit - How Come She does this?
Every woman's clitoris is different. Your girlfriend's is likely extremely sensitive to touch- or you might be being too rough. The only way to know is to ask her.
The following link will direct you to several previous discussions on and about touching the clitoris when it becomes too sensitive to touch.
One of the ones at the top of the list doesn't but the rest do. Read my replies to a few.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/search.php?searchid=201380
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;195540]The following link will direct you to several previous discussions on and about touching the clitoris when it becomes too sensitive to touch.
One of the ones at the top of the list doesn't but the rest do. Read my replies to a few.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/search.php?searchid=201380[/QUOTE]
i went to this website but it didnt bring up any lists it just said sorry no information.
Evidently she does not like it. She needs to figure out what is good by herself and then will be able to advise you. A common complaint among younger women is having their clitoris battered by young men who treat it as though it were a penis.
I agree with Brandye and I was about to say what she said. It seems common to find guys that treat the clit as if it's a penis - you simply cannot be that rough with it. I was shocked when I first got together with my current BF, and he showed me how he masturbates and how rough and hard he touches himself. Women need slow, light touches. If you are too rough or you go at the clit too fast and with too much intensity, it's going to become too sensitive and almost painful. I do not let my BF touch my clit during sex either, because just the texture of his finger rubbing on me can sometimes be too much. Try indirect stimulation, lick and touch her everywhere except for directly on her clit. The absolute best instruction will come from your GF herself - if you can watch her masturbate, that's even better, because you will get to see for yourself how she gets off and what touch she needs.
I guess the software doesn't maintain a search link forever.
Anyway, click on "Search" and then click on Advanced Search at the bottom of the popup window. Type in my name and the search term: indirect
This will brink up a list of previous discussions in which I have commented along with others.
I prefer NOT having my clitoris interfered with when also having intercourse except under unusual circumstances which we needn't go into here.
It would seem that you're not very good at reading her signals if she has to drag you off of a certain spot. Pay attention and take notes. This is part of foreplay - what does she like when and how. Think of it as exploring your options - if I do this like this, this happens. Hmmm well, what would happen if I did that instead?
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;195942]I prefer NOT having my clitoris interfered with when also having intercourse except under unusual circumstances which we needn't go into here.
It would seem that you're not very good at reading her signals if she has to drag you off of a certain spot. Pay attention and take notes. This is part of foreplay - what does she like when and how. Think of it as exploring your options - if I do this like this, this happens. Hmmm well, what would happen if I did that instead?[/QUOTE]
well see thats the thing....while im down on her she sits there and tells me how good it feels....to me....it seems like she is gettin ready to have an orgasm....but she has yet to experience that...she cums all the time but she never has an orgasm....so i think its just shes not used to the feeling doesnt know what to think so she pushes me off at the last second.
[QUOTE=katiebug;195606]I agree with Brandye and I was about to say what she said. It seems common to find guys that treat the clit as if it's a penis - you simply cannot be that rough with it. I was shocked when I first got together with my current BF, and he showed me how he masturbates and how rough and hard he touches himself. Women need slow, light touches. If you are too rough or you go at the clit too fast and with too much intensity, it's going to become too sensitive and almost painful. I do not let my BF touch my clit during sex either, because just the texture of his finger rubbing on me can sometimes be too much. Try indirect stimulation, lick and touch her everywhere except for directly on her clit. The absolute best instruction will come from your GF herself - if you can watch her masturbate, that's even better, because you will get to see for yourself how she gets off and what touch she needs.[/QUOTE]
i wish i could watch her masterbate...but unfortunately she doesnt ....well she tells me she doesnt..she possibly could have fun when im not around i dont know....but i have never seen her touch herself unless she is in the shower washing off.
Excuse me? "she cums all the time but never has an orgasm?" What did you think 'cum' meant?
It seems you two are not communicating. TALK to her next time.