Hi. I am 17 and I lost my virginity last year. Since that time I have had 2 other sexual experiences. During all of these experiences my PHYSICAL reactions have been normal (i.e. vaginal wetness, some nipple hardness) but I have neve felt any pleasure. Not but getting my nipples licked and sucked, getting fingered, getting "ate out", or even actual sexual intercurse (ive actually experienced pain on all three occasions for that).Am I normal? Or is it that I just cant feel pleasure of any kind...just wierd. PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! 
Tue, 09/07/2004 - 20:44
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No pleasure from sex...
I'd have to add that it's possible you've had lousy lovers.
(Not that I'm encouraging you to try addtional ones. LOL)
Seriously, a lot of young sex is not about pleasure.
Even in a good relationship, it takes some effort and time for a couple to learn what "works" for both. Contrary to the romantic myth, it doesn't just come naturally for everyone.
Patience, my dear.
hay it could be because you've also just done it 3 times, that and alot of girls find they dont feel anything if they arent comfortable with the person they are with... so they block it out..
but yeah its pretty normal at first
jamie