I disagree with the above because the response does not address the fundamental problem associated with body positions; although, I do agree and recommend knowledge, skill, and variety, as required male tools for his "tool".

> i dont orgasim during sex.

Most sexual positions do not place the female genitalia against the man's body in a way to receive the required and necessary friction. Three that do are the Woman Superior, "X" and "Y" in which the couple recline on their sides facing each other. The difference between the two is in how the legs are positioned. Most other positions only provide hit and miss or transitory contact and this simply is not sufficient to build her arousal to the point of a climax.

Because the woman's clitoris and adjoining pieces-parts are not (adequately) stimulated during intercourse, what most knowledgeable, caring, skilled, compassionate lovers do is to reach around and finger her while stroking away.

If it is her wish, he can also help her to enjoy an orgasm before and/or after intercourse.

> my boyfriend feels like he cant please me what do i do

Let him read your request for help and the replies.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

even though u have had sex '1000 times' he must learn how to control and use his 'tool' in a way that it pleases both of you. This is not an easy thing to do as you have to find a spot that best stimulates the partner and is in a different spot on every girl but once this spot is found then the possibilities are endless

i really dont have much room to give advice here seeing as i onlny had sex for the first time just yesterday morning but the best advice i can say is pretty much what doc said, just try different positions and see what feels good for you. my girlfriend kept asking me what position i like cause we tried a couple and they all felt pretty the same for me so i went with what felt the best for her so if your boyfriend is like me and just wants to please his girlfriend (which it sounds like he is) then just find a posistion that you enjoy the most and he would be probably more than happy to do it for you