yea nerves don't worry just relax and try again same happened to me when i got close and i am still to retry

In a word: Nerves

In two words: "Performance Anxiety"

This is a condition that afflicts many of us the first few times when with someone new.

The worst thing you can do is to worry, and, worry about this. The cure is simple--don't worry, because worrying just makes it worse.

Now, having said all that, did either of you do anything to try and reestablish your erection? If no, then next time this happens, try and work it up, again, or better yet, invite her to!

Yeah, it happens to me from time to time, and its a bummer. Performance anxiety had a habit of fueling on itself. Its a kind of self-fulfilling prophecy. The more you worry about it, the more it happens.

The best thing is to not even think about it. Just concentrate on the other things you find pleasurable - hugging, kissing, touching etc. By doing this and not worrying, you may find that it all just happens naturally.

Relax, no one's keeping score here. Also understand that you can please her and bring her to orgasm even without an erection by using your mouth and hands. So can she to you. Erections are very nice, yes; but they aren't everything!

exact same happened to me, went on for a few weeks but went away... although i do go soft sometimes durin sex, dunno y cos am not nervous or anythin, done it wi her alot lol so...