when i have sex or fool around with a girl i find it very difficult to cum. i have no problem keeping it up, but no matter what she does i cant let out my load.
ie this weekend she jacked me off for almost 20 min and i finally came. this seems awfully long, esp since her wrist was hurting since it took too long.
and other relavant info.. i dont masturbate. well maybe once ever 2 months, and when i do, i dont ejaculate. only time i do is when i have wet dreams
anyone else have this problem?
what can i do aobut this?
and for the girls: would you think this is a bad thing?


Yeah I seem to have the exact same problem : can't ejaculate when masturbating, yet I have night sperm emissions quite frequently.
Given proper stimulation, I can stay erect for a long time but I'm not able to "finish".
I'll try some more intense stimulation with my gf, but I'd like to know if there is any "cure" to this condition.
Maybe there are some people here who have dealt with this in their past, anyone?