ok one of the things i enjoy a lot when my boyfriend is pleasuring me is for him to rub or lick my nipples. however, i'm kinda...traumatized from a previous relationship. my exbf did not know what he was doing when he ate me out and i never had an orgasm until one day when i told him to rub my nipples when he was doing it and i finally did. but i guess he thought that was weird that i enjoyed that so much and when we broke up he told about 20 people that i knew and like 20 more people that i DIDNT know...and im probably barely exaggerating. anyway, because of that whole situation i feel almost like a freak that i enjoy that so much. so with my current bf i have told him to do that, and its not like he minds or i mind or anything like that but in the back of my mind i feel like a weirdo.
so in conclusion just wanted to ask who else enjoys this a lot? is it a major part of foreplay for you? do you see this as a weird kinda fetish?
He's the one who needs to get his head checked.
That's why so many women like having their nipples played with either during sex, foreplay or masturbating. It just feels so good, so what not do what feels good.
Just think some of the people that he told might actually have a clue and think he's the one that's weird.
I wouldn't worry about it. And by all means tell your current BF, there is no reason to not be fully enjoying yourself. In fact your current BF may enjoy the fact that this pleases you so much.
Your ex is a jerk who doesn't know squat about sex or woman nor does he care to find out. DOn't worry about him. There is nothign to be ashamed of, this is very very common. For many people, including me its a normal part of the forplay. So don't worry and just enjoy it.
Sweetie your ex is a big old jerk off and should be slapped for doing that to you. Sheesh people make me mad sometimes.
I have always loved my nipples to be played with anytime during sex. Either by my man or by myself. I play with them when masturbating and I have had orgasms just by having them squeezed together and licked and sucked in just the right way.
You are so not weird, in fact I would say you are totally normal. Nipples are full of nerves that for many, many women feel wonderful when stimulated.
So you stop feeling weird and enjoy it to its fullest.
your ex b/f was the weirdo if he had never heard of anyone enjoying that.
when im getting oral i play w/ my own nipples. my b/f also like when i tease his.
its definetly a big part of warming me up during foreplay.
if im on top, and its starting to feel good and then my b/f starts sucking on one of my nipples and uses his fingers on the other.. then alternating back and forth... im over the top in no time.
especially when both are getting stimulation.. its great
some people REALLY enjoy nipple play and can orgasm from that alone... some its just eh.. does nothing for them.
just got to experiment and see what works for you.
so to answer your question, you are completely normal.