Curious, about crying and its effect on sex!

[curious_woman]

When I have sex with my fiancé after crying for whatever reason, he says I feel a lot "tighter" and I was wondering if this happens to anyone else, and if there is some scientific reason why it happens! It's not bad at all, he loves it lol and it feels great for me too...just curious what causes it. =)

[Laika]

I am not much of a cryer and have never had sex after crying so far.
But as you cry, you always get whis kind of cramping feeling, were your muscles get tighter (in whole body), so maybe that is why same happens with vagina?
Well, that was totally my ideas, I do not know scientifically

[curious_woman]

hmm...well i don't usually cry either, lol i cried because my boyfriend was going home the next day...and we snuggled and he cheered me up...and well...really "cheered" me up lol

that does sound right maybe though...hopefully someone else can give an opinion too

[Sadfase]

Yes it does I can vouche for this. Im in a long distance relationship and the night of my flight. Err the Night before my flight in the morning, we had some nice sex. Then we were laying there and she was crying and I was like awww and we talked and cuddled and I felt bad and I we said the sweet nothings and we had sex again and I had to like stop her because I was like stop tightening up and it felt REALLY awesome (cos girls can apparently tighten up on command if u ask I guess if they dont do it themselves) but she was like Im sorry Im not doing anything. And I just thought it was cos we were using Ultrathin condoms and maybe it was in my head. But it probably had to do with that!

Very interesting.

[Sap]

Me and my boyfriend have experienced the same thing, he said it felt really tight and he liked it.
But it happened another time and he said that I became too tight and it made it so that he couldn't cum -_-

[LadyBug02]

I suppose this is probably due to the fact that you were tense when crying.

[curious_woman]

Okay well maybe I'm just strange, because the last few days I've been randomly tightening up so much, so much he can barely get inside me. Bit stressed so maybe thats it, but atm I am so tight it hurts me when he first goes in! Not that I'm exactly complaining...it feels great once he's in.

[LadyBug02]

Originally Posted by curious_woman

Okay well maybe I'm just strange, because the last few days I've been randomly tightening up so much, so much he can barely get inside me. Bit stressed so maybe thats it, but atm I am so tight it hurts me when he first goes in! Not that I'm exactly complaining...it feels great once he's in.

Maybe you should have him and you engage in some more foreplay before penetration actually occurs. I would think that this would help loosen things up a bit.

[curious_woman]

We do, and I'm dripping wet. I get tighter when I'm horny lately, not looser

[LadyBug02]

Originally Posted by curious_woman

We do, and I'm dripping wet. I get tighter when I'm horny lately, not looser

Oh that's interesting. I'm definitely not an expert on this so I honestly don't know what to tell you. Maybe try less foreplay?