How can I find a woman online?

[unx3]

Everytime I post an ad online I always get a response that turns into an advertisement or she wants me to go to her site "she just made" where I have to pay to see more of her. This is not what I want. I just want a woman for discreet fun in my area but I get these responses that are "college co-eds" that are bored, etc and about 19 years old. I am 36 years old and don't see a 19 year old model quality girl being "bored". My question is how can I find a legitimate woman? It is easier for girls to find a guy online since the ratio is about 100 guys to every 1 woman.

[sera300]

I think you are backwards...I believe there are 100 women for every man! LOL.

Anyway, try Adultfriendfinder, I want you. com, Mate1, or Plentyoffish. Just post in your profile what you are not looking for meaning what you just put here...

Ask them not to respond if they are "goofing around", etc. Serious inquiries only.

[unx3]

Every site I have been on there have been thousands of guy profiles and about maybe a few hundred women profiles. Out of the few hundred female profiles half are not looking for a guy but another woman. The other half are a split between ads and leaving the 1/4 comprising actual women looking for men. Put that in my area and that 1/4 goes down to about 1 or 2 on a good day.

[sera300]

Maybe it's geography! Just take time and be picky, be very selective. Other then these sites, I have no further ideas. Sorry! I just equated your posts, I don't know your situation. Go out and buy a silver toned band ring, go to a bar, and see if it works. I have a few male friends who do this and swear by it.

[Kbests2003]

Put your self in their position. I am 19, and would never consider a women who was 36. Maybe 30 tops. I deal with this at work since I am a young team leader, and most of the people who are working for me are hitting on me, and much older. It's just not common to find a girl that is 19 that will want to with someone over 26-27 unless you have a great deal of money it seems.

I am not trying to be offencive, but maybe the same reason you are looking for a 19 year old, they are as well.

Also adultfriendfinder sounds okay, tho never tried it.

[Newtolove]

erm unfortunately the net is the biggest and cheapest ad media and the most used way of delivering porn and its derivates doing anything legitimate online is getting increasingly harder and as online dating is not always the best resource to start with your pretty out numbered. try going to serious sites but may possibly be pay sites but if you want proffessionalism you might have to pay