Bisexual Men

[tramp06660]

I've noticed so many ads requesting a bi-female to join a m/f couple for fun, but only about 1 in a 1,000 for a bi-male. Why is this?

[oberon]

The easy answer is that being a bi-sexual female is looked on by straight men as sexy, but a bi-sexual male is too close to that Q-word. So consequently, bi-sexual men aren't as open about advertising their orientation.

[Rawbob]

Oberon is right! Yet, the fastest growing fantasy among couples (from the Female perspective) is to see her male partner engage in bisex. But, so many men are paralyzed with fear that it undermines their "masculinity" to even try it!

The double-standard in our society is that female bisexuality is considered desireable while male bisexuality is consided immoral. However, if you want to really guage how many men ARE engaging in bisexuality, swing by an adult bookstore that has video booths or glory holes and you'll see lots of married men parading in and out of the business. Or read your local paper's arrest column, and see the names of all those str8/married guys getting arrested for lewd conduct in well know gay cruising areas.

I say this because the more we support the notion that female bisex is good, and male bisex is bad, the more we undermine ourselves as sexual beings.

Now, I feel it's also important to note that many women are very insecure about the notion of male/bi/sex. If a woman is not prone to extra-marital sex in general, she's not goingto want to encourage her husband to try bi sex. But, since we all agree that the key to a healthy sexual relationship with our partner is COMMUNICATION - if we all take a deep breath and accept the reality that there are gay, bi and str8 folk out there - that its only natural to see some overlap between the three areas

I for one, hope we see more unity then division when it comes to accepting male bisexuality among singles and couples. Hey, i can dream can't i?

[Marselluss]

>>Or read your local paper's arrest column, and see the names of all those str8/married guys getting arrested for lewd conduct in well know gay cruising areas.<<

what? where in the world is that happening? I can't beleive that there are newspaper that publish such a thing! and where are men arrested for having bi/gay sex?

do you guys think that more women prefer bi female sex or bi men sex? I know that more men seem to like to see two females and often you see that women ask for the same, still I see quite some women posts that seem to like two men together...