I was one of those dork's who didnt lose their virginity until they were 21. As a result, when I finally did it was with a girl with far more experience than I. There were a number of things that I would have wanted to try/do just out of curiosity, many that she did when she was just starting out, in that whole curiosity phase. Now that I am with her, I fear that I may have missed out on it and wont be able to since she already passed her phase a while ago. It isnt so much that I want to go out and become some sex crazed maniac and I would never cheat on her, but like I said I feel a little left out sometimes. Was anyone ever in a similar situation?
I am also sure that I'm not doing that bad, probably among her top lovers (only 6 including me), but I still worry about how I stack up sometimes.
well, i really was a dork. the kind that sat in front of his computer playing some god forsaken video game, that's the kind of dork i was referring to. It isnt the 3somes that i'm concerned about, mostly the sort of stuff...like when younger people are more adventurous in terms of where and when and positions. I worry that she went through that phase and isnt as adventurous now that i am entering mine.
well i didn't lose my virginity till i was 22 and it doesn't make you a dork...lol
but im not sure exactly what "experiences" are you talking about that you are curious to do??
i mean there shouldn't much that is out of the question for her... its good to have variety.
unless you are talking about having 3somes or something.
then thats a whole other story.
dont worry about that just talk to her about it
who knows maybe she didn't do all that "crazy stuff" when she was young
besides variety is the spice of life
even as you grow as a couple just regular bed sex missionary style will get boring. you will both be looking forward to trying different and odd or wild positions
having sex in strange places, in a car, or outside somewhere.
thats what keeps things interesting.
so dont worry that she'll be like... been there done that.
im sure she'll be up for anything
hope this helps