my boyfriend keeps asking me if we could bring a third partner into bed with us, and i am unsure he isn't asking about a female either, he wants me to have sex with another guy while giving him a blowjob, then once the other guy finishes, i was to kick him out and go at it again with my boyfriend. I have never had anything like this happen to me before and i am unsure on what to do about it. Iam willing to try it for him, but to add to it he wants it to be a black guy, and ive never been with a black guy either and dont find them attractive.
ANy advice on what to do?
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Well it sounds like a cool experience if u asked me....I'm 20 and had my first threesome with my gf a year ago and let me tell u it was the hottest thing I ever saw lol. I love my gf just as much before as I did after. Are u ok with a black man? And how r u guys going about it? If u have any questions message me
No, she's NOT ok with a black man and that's OK. Hun, if you want to say NO then say NO. There should never be any coercion in sex and your preferences are your preferences and not to be argued with.
Because if you're not into something sexual 100% then you shouldn't do it.
Threesomes can be fun, but it takes proper planning and considerable time to set them up correctly. Not only that, but there is an etiquette involved which neither of you have learned.
Sounds like u guys should talk about the guy
yep talk about exactly what you are willing to accept and what he would, then talk about the guy. I have been in alot of threeways with other couples, and if it is open and communicated it is one of the hottest things in the world.
You don't talk about the guy - you hunt (look for, seek out) for the other guy or additional man TOGETHER.
And if you, the man, CANNOT go up to another man and say "My wife would like you to have her phone number." without any loss of dignity, then a threesome is NOT for you.
I love my gf just as much before as I did after. Are u ok with a black man?
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;278046]And part of 'safety' is NOT irritating the lady, dammit!
If she says "no black men" then no black men it is.
Think how'd you feel if you expected some nice willing lady only to find a black man more than willing to bend you over, buddyboy, aand fully capable of doing so whether you wanted it or not.
Do you get my drift?[/QUOTE]
You said it EEK! Now I don't know about you but I think this thread is answered, dead, dug-up and reburied.
And part of 'safety' is NOT irritating the lady, dammit!
If she says "no black men" then no black men it is.
Think how'd you feel if you expected some nice willing lady only to find a black man more than willing to bend you over, buddyboy, aand fully capable of doing so whether you wanted it or not.
Do you get my drift?
[QUOTE=goodlucy;278018]I love my gf just as much before as I did after. Are u ok with a black man?
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She clearly said she was not fine with a black man. Which as at least one other poster already said was fine. Reading all of a post before replying makes everything much simpler and prevents confusion and pointless postings.
Cluelesson as I believe several people said already, the decision of who, what, when, and where you do/don't have a threesome is up to you. It's your choice who you do/don't have sex with and you need to tell your Boyfriend this. Beyond that just remember the first rule of non-monogamous sex. Safety First!