I am brand new to these forums and don't know if this is the right forum to post on for my question but here goes:
I am a 19 year old guy, almost 20, that had sex for the first time a little over a year ago. Since then I have only been with the same girl, and haven't had sex with any other person than her.
During sex, its not that I don't feel satisfied, or that I feel she is unsatisfied. But we have have sex quite often, and it feels like it has become routine. It always starts the same way, and as neither of us are that sexually experienced, the process strays from a set order of things.
First we kiss, then petting, undressing, genital play, etc. I don't have trouble getting aroused during any of this but I am looking to try new things that can help us break from routine and make each time different and more involved.
I am somewhat afraid, as is she, of trying new things during sex.
I would appreciate any help or tips anyone has for me. I'm not looking for anything strange or "kinky," but just ways to spice it up a bit.
Thanks in advance
just be imaginative and remember that nothing that you both don't dislike is wrong
there's positions listed on this site, why don't u get her goin on a sex talk then sit her down and see what she likes. I'll let you do the talking I'm not gonna type out what you should say.
do you have a car? have sex in your car and park somewhere low/moderate risk of getting caught. My lady and I do that quite a bit and it makes for some awesome times. plus whenever you're out and about you can pass a certian place and think in your head "yeah.. yeah I had sex there. I rock!"
My girlfriend also put long mirrors on her room, and now we can see each other while we're having sex and it's really hot. even if we're doing a regular position it makes it that much more cool cause I can see her/ myself from a different perspective.
*this one might be a little "off the shelf" for you, but if you already haven't, try trimming yourself or shaving yourself totally. a little surprise for her cause it makes your dick look bigger too, and for some reason after I shave myself it makes me really horny and I just want to go for a roll really bad. plus visually I like it more because when she's all the way down on my dick I can see her lips touching me and I think thats super super hot. once again this one might be just for me, not for you. but something to consider perhaps. maybe she'll think it's WILD, and she won't get any stray hairs in her mouth when she's going down on you.
Why don't you spend 15-20 minutes together on this site looking for new, interesting things to do?
Maybe have her dress up for her? Anything to keep the flame going.
Umm I'll just list a few ideas...
-buy some massage oil and give her a lengthy full body massage, very hot!
-try taking a hot shower or bath together, getting soaped up together is awesome!
-How bout the classic whipped cream?
-Do it somewhere unexpected and different.
I like the car idea too! That's always a good time!
hey i as a female enjoy when my man makes me ejaculate. i am deffinately satisfied. Its not a myth. the trick to it is her clit. get a vibrator and set it oh high. not leaving it on to long barly touching it give her some frequent touches and it will make her feel as if she's getting little shocks. keep it up until she feels like she has to pee once she feels like it tell her to let it go.then see her flow like a fountain. trust me there is nothing like it.