how to make her want me

[duh477]

Ive started going out with this girl that I went out with a few times earlier this year and I like her alot im 22 shes 21 and a few months ago we were making out and I tried to put my hand in her pants and she stopped me and I was fine with that. I dont always want to be the one making the advance I would like it to be her when she is ready. So what should I do? Should I just tell her that She is going to have to be the one to let me know when shes ready or should I do the implied consent thing and try it again next time to see if she stops me?

[dancingdoc2]

Please read the article on "Implied Consent" listed in the Index!

A good relationship depends upon having good communication. Perhaps the two of you should read this and other articles and then discuss what you have learned.

[EvilEvilKitten]

OR wait until she's jumping your bones.

[Brandye]

Or maybe she really was not ready that time; there are many reasons a woman is not up for it with a new partner at any one time - period, no washing facilities, no contraception, still undecided, still too early in the relationship, she had chili for lunch. Time passes, variables change. Ask her.