need help ? ( erection )

[bobby_boy]

I am pretty worryed because when i dont have an erection, I can pull my forceskin right back fine with no pain. When i have an erection i can only pull it back as far as the rim of my penis if i go any further then it hurts. I dont wont to go to doctors because im scared. btw im 16

[bobby_boy]

sorry about the spelling i mean foreskin

[nuttychick]

Hi bobby-boy there is really no need to double post
Brandye answered your question in the other thread and she is a Dr
so go back to that thread for more help...

Scared of the doctors why?
This is your body ... the one you will have for the rest of your life..
look after it and if you have a problem get it fixed..what if it turns into a major problem and you are never able to use your penis again because you where not man enough to seek professional help when it first happened ?

Yes it is embarrasing but Dr's have seen it all before and will be gentle with you lol

Good luck

[Brandye]

I just responded to your question. Evidently, you, too, do not like my responses. Ask EvilEvilKitten.

[nuttychick]

Bobby boy are you a virgin?

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by bobby_boy

I am pretty worryed because when i dont have an erection, I can pull my forceskin right back fine with no pain. When i have an erection i can only pull it back as far as the rim of my penis if i go any further then it hurts. I dont wont to go to doctors because im scared. btw im 16

Hello Bobby,

What are you going to do if all of us advise you to "see your doctor"? What if you had a very serious condition, would you elect to feel ill for a week or two, or, go and get checked out and get a prescription. What about doing nothing when you could have only to find out it is now too late. You can certainly be scared or even apprehensive, yet placing irrational fear before reason is not wise.

Here's the skinny on the foreskin: First, they come in different shapes and sizes. Some have a straw-like extension beyond the tip of the penis; others have a large opening that will cover all or part of the glans. Many up until mid to late teens are tacked in place and do very little moving back and forth.

Do you fiddle with it at all? By fiddling, I mean trying to free it, tug on it, massage it? A lot of boys do as a matter of self exploration, so, if you do not, you may want to consider playing with it.

The rim or "Corona Rim" can have a larger circumference than the shaft and/or glans and moving the foreskin back behind it can sometimes be a problem. One thing you can do is to take a warm bath or shower that will soften the foreskin and then to stretch the opening in order to make it wider. This can take several baths or showers yet will often be just what is needed to let it slip back beyond the Corona Rim.

Now, if your foreskin's opening is very small and stretching the opening over the course of a month or so will not work, my suggestion as Brandye often recommends is to go to the doctor and get it "nicked" in order to make the opening larger. This is not a big deal, takes a second, and is far less drastic than circumcision.

[bobby_boy]

Yes thanks for your help and yes i am a virgin. And brandye sorry i didnt see you reply

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by bobby_boy

Yes thanks for your help and yes i am a virgin. And

swollen lips

Originally Posted by bobby_boy

me and my girlfreind have been having sex and sometimes after sex my girlfreinds lips get swollen and hurts when she wee's been to the doctors but they say she has no infection or std so what could it be.........

hmmm so the link above is Fact or Fiction???

[EvilEvilKitten]

Jeez! "I don't want to go to the doctor's because I'm scared" - 16, almost a man, almost an adult, and you're whinging like some child?

Please. Just man up and get your butt to the doctor's office. Jeez!

Like we can examine you here. pfft.