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M-a-s-t-u-r-b-a-t-e please note how to spell the word.
Of course you will reach orgasm more quickly but not to worry, just using condoms will slow you down and be sure to ALWYS use condoms. But once you have calmed down and you learn to pay attention to HER instead of worrying about yourself, you will be able to 'hold on' for much longer.
For now you should do your Kegel exercises and begin Edge play, which is to bring yourself to the point of orgasm and then stop, wait until you calm down and then repeat, repeat, repeat the process over and over again until you can separate the orgasm (flexing of the pc muscle) from the actual ejaculation of semen. The two do not necessarily travel together.
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