Threesome Logistics

[firekgralat]

I've been dating my gf for 3 years now and I found out she is bisexual, so, having mutual fantasies, naturally threesomes came up. We decided to do it, with one of our friends this weekend.

Before anyone throws the red flags, we discussed it several times and we are comfortable with it happening, and with the third person. We promised each other it won't change our relationship at all, and we just wanna have some fun! We are completely serious about trying it and there is little doubt.

Anyways, I'm concerned about the logistics. My girlfriend and I have a been trying simple new sex stuff but this is definitely something neither of thought we would ever experience, so I guess I'm asking what can we do? What positions work best? Is it better to wing it?

[ThickMami]

It's good that you have talked about it and even though you promised each other nothing will change with your relationship. IT WILL!! Trust me... at first you think its cool, fine and dandy.

Usually if there is doubt then you should go with it and not do it. I understand you are trying to have fun but...

It all comes down to you and her...

[Brandye]

Why not do a search on threesomes and read the dozens of threads already here. Some including comments on the logistics.

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by firekgralat

What positions work best? Is it better to wing it?

This is a very poorly formed question that
a) neither describes the type stimulation or orgasm that is the goal nor how many people are giving/receiving/watching
b) makes you look clueless by not knowing to ask those things, and clueless + sex is not good, especially clueless + group sex

Other than fixing those two things, I believe Brandye covered the next move.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, please do your research - we have written about this at some length elsewhere in this forum.

I enjoy non-bi 3somes but must say that I prefer non-bi MFMs. Bisexuality is NOT a requirement btw.

[Brandye]

I am bi- and will not even consider a threesome - of any combination or permutation.

[firekgralat]

I didn't want anyway advice on whether or not I want to do it. And the bi thing just part of the story, sorry... And yes I have read up on it all over the site before I posted this. I'm sorry wanting to try something new and not knowing exactly the right approach. Geez...

[Massdebator]

Geez...

Don't take the comments above so personally. It's hard to sugarcoat advice in a forum without obscuring the seriousness of the reply, so most of the members here don't do it, while other members don't sugarcoat things out of principle. We give straight-forward, honest advice and recommendations. There is no malice in the previous replies.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I have already posted how to do this - logistically speaking,

To wit: you two, the couple, start off and then the third oozes in where he/she can.

Or did you miss that part?