it doesn't enter

[nuttychick]

Damn DEN ... If Brandye says get to the Dr and mentions serious do you think she is talking thru the hole in her arse?

Wake up man Brandye is a Doctor .. Vanella is just some random on a forum (no offence lol)

[den2k]

As Brandye said, it affects 1% or 2% of women, so probabilities are low. Why panick when you are 98% possibility to go wrong? Say, I'm degreeing in Computer Engineering, but I don't check username and password because it doesn't enter (ok that was a cheap joke but it gives the idea).

IF we'll notice that there could be a physical problem we'd instantly go to the Doc. I'm not THAT stupid. BUT, I'll try the more probable and common firstly, as logic suggests.

If I have headache for weeks it could be cervical problem, vision problem or brain cancer (and others). Which is the first you'd check out?

[EvilEvilKitten]

and if you'd actually READ something - you'd find The Program and Body Worship says what Vanilla said and MORE.

den2k - probabilities arn't the point - 99% of couples have no problems with sex - but that's not the situation with you now is it? So, frankly, probabilities be damned.

I have no idea why you're against the woman getting a simple gyne exam. She should be getting one each and every year anyway. Yet rather than being sensible, you're willing to keep trying what hasn't worked.

[den2k]

Of course that will be done, but firstly I try something less invasive: I'm taking into account what she wants and prefers, AND I don't want to panick her -she's easy to panick and she makes things worst cause she somatize!

So if I don't have reasons to believe it's a pyhical problem, I don't walk towards REAL problems!

[EvilEvilKitten]

She panics easily?
Yegods!

and gyne exams aren't as 'invasive' as penetrative sex.

[Brandye]

den2k you have asked a question and now are systematically disregarding all answers. ALL women should have gyn exams. She is facing a possibly serious issues with her future sex life. If you wish to disregard all this, be my guest. But, then do not ask in the first place.

You have already noticed that she has a physical problem. Logic suggests that she get it checked not that you ignore it and hope it is something you can use self-help methods.