How young is too young?

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by Mukfuker

I do use condoms and pull out good enough for ya? And personally i blame the media and porn

I never have understood the logic of pulling out when using a condom especially if the girlfriend is using a spermicide and/or is using another form of birth control.

Pulling out in such cases seems counter productive and a waste of a good condom!

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by Mukfuker

And as for Brandye, theres an abortion clinic round' here and she already decided that if she did she would.

Better to do what you can to prevent a pregnancy than throw caution to the wind and rely on the clinic. Having an abortion is pretty traumatic and I wouldn't wish that experience on anyone. In my never to be so humble opinion, both of you need to rethink this logic.

[Mukfuker]

While i agree with you on the condom thing, What else can i do? cuz we aint stopping if thats what your going for

[EvilEvilKitten]

Wear the condom and DON'T pull out. If you're wearing the condom correectly you don't have to do that. But she should still be on her own BC because then she's not handing her life over to louts who think an abortion is better than practicing safe sex as responsible adults.

[scottyv#47]

personally mate if you both are ready and willing then go for it and enjoy it

[Brandye]

There is more to the planning than knowing where the nearest abortion mill is. At her age there are significant issues that the various authorities would need to deal with. Legal, social and parental issues need to be addressed.

If you are to continue, use condoms and vaginal spermicide, preferably vaginal jelly (K-Y+ or Gynol II or Koromex).

[lnt1103]

Originally Posted by Mukfuker

I do use condoms and pull out good enough for ya? And personally i blame the media and porn

Originally Posted by Mukfuker

And as for Brandye, theres an abortion clinic round' here and she already decided that if she did she would.

Originally Posted by Mukfuker

While i agree with you on the condom thing, What else can i do? cuz we aint stopping if thats what your going for

OK so this isn't so much about how young YOU lost it, as it is about your gf wanting to lose it to you, and whether SHE'S too young.

You're both too young, MUCH too immature, and MUCH MUCH too uneducated. Grow up and learn some things before you get into this. Here are a few pieces of good information to start you off:

1--the condom means there's no need to pull out. Catching the cum while you're inside her is the whole reason it was invented.
2--'If I get pregnant I'll just get an abortion' is NOT the attitude to have about this.
3--If I was your gf and you copped HALF the BS macho attitude about sex that you've copped in this thread, you'd be smacked upside the head that sits above your shoulders instead of getting the other one pleasured.