Please help...

[bibbz191]

Hi there, so this is pretty embarassing for me but i really dont have time to waste on this one so im just gonna jump right into it. Ive been dating a girl for a couple months now and as far as sexual activity is going shes gave me head a couple times now and last night we decided we were going to have sex. Prior to the actual start of our sex last night she was sucking me off and doing very well but then suddenly decided to jump on top of me fairly quickly... after that it pretty much ending up in me blowing my load pretty much the second she got on. I was just wondering if someone could give me some information as far as help for next time and maybe a bit more of an explanation of what happened because frankly im confused as to why I gave in so easily. Im just a young man looking for help in order to please his girlfriend so any help would be much appreciated.

[2little]

sometimes, if there is too much foreplay, it could get you so "wound up" that as soon as your in, the pleasure is overwelming. its normal. my suggestion. let her give you head, but then turn the tables play with her don't let her touch you. and after a while you guys decide to have sex, guide her hand onto your penis to help you get hard again if needed then go at it.

[Cool]

I think that the foreplay was a little too much for ya, that's all. Next time tell her to go slow and not to jump on you so quickly. Don't think about it too much. If she is a little bit stand offish next time tell her that she was to good and you need to brace yourself this time (with a smile),

[dancingdoc2]

Premature Ejaculation is common, particularly with guys in their teens and twenties.

The cause is a lack of ability to discern when you are about to climax. This is because you have yet to learn to associate those sensations that immediately preceed a climax with its trigger point.

Another cause and part of this is that if you have learned when you are about to climax often we become all wrapped up in the moment and the feelings and just tell ourselves "oh shucks" and do not pause in order to let our sense of urgency subside.

Please read this article:

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

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[EvilEvilKitten]

Why or why did you two stop at only once???

So you came too fast that time - wait 10 minutes and then do it all over again and again and again. If fact, if you do it until you, the male, drops from fatigue you will find your stamina and your ability will increase over time.

4 hours three times per week!

Can you get into the concept?