Losing my virginity to my wife?

[johnnymac57]

I know most people will laugh at this and tell me I am lame. But.... I want that to be the case. I have come this far as a virgin, and I want to only be with one woman.

....laugh......rip me off....so what?

I think that will be awesome, I want that in my life.

I want a wife and a baby girl.

At this point I have no wife, but I want to find her soon and I choose to believe in that, and hope for those things.

If you have some good advice for me then please say something, otherwise I don't care if you think I am a virgin loser.

[Brandye]

Keep it zipped for a while until you find her. Good luck with a noble goal.

[Rouge]

I think it's a great idea.

[lnt1103]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

....laugh......rip me off....so what?

I think that will be awesome, I want that in my life.

Precisely. You do what you need to do to make your own life work for you. People's issues with it are theirs, not yours.

Go where your heart leads you.

[captaincrunch]

nice tool u got there girls should like it. so whats your problem with girls

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I don't see a problem with that. You are not a virgin loser. Life is more than about sex but sadly some people do not realize that.

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by captaincrunch

nice tool u got there girls should like it. so whats your problem with girls

The problems are all in MY head.

[lnt1103]

Originally Posted by johnnymac57

The problems are all in MY head.

The only problem in this thread is Captain Idiot.

Johnny, you do NOT have a problem. You have ideals. Stick with them. IF, someday, they happen to change(which while I"m not trying to rain on your parade, they might), that's okay, don't feel guilty. But whatever you decide your 'guns' are, stick to them.

And totally ignore idiots who have nothing of value to say.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Having listened to johnnymac's problems for some time now - YES HE HAS A PROBLEM and THIS is just more of the same.

The man is SCARED on a massive scale. He fears rejection so much that he refuses to even try asking a woman out - let alone asking a woman to marry him and permit him to sire her children.

This newest idea is just another EXCUSE he can hide behind.

People, THIS is exactly why remaining a virgin too long is bad. Women want men who have courage for the simple reason that women want to be able to rely upon him when she needs him. If a man cannot get up the courage to bed a woman, terribly fearsom prospect?, how can she possibly rely upon him to face anything serious?

"Faint heart never won fair maid."

[cjb1981]

So long as you don't rush into marriage just to have sex, there's not a problem with what you're planing per say. That being said, Kitten seems to have read other post of yours, whereas I haven't. If you are indeed using this as a way to excuse a fear of interacting with women, then yea, it could be a problem for you.