A couple questions

[totse420]

First question is, i can't seem to last long unless I'm at least somewhat drunk. i mean i can go for a pretty long fuckin time when i've had at least four or five shots in me but if i'm sober i finish off in five or ten. is that normal?

oh and also I was wondering if girls like it when guys shave down there. I shave it clean maybe once a week, so usually it's either clean or a little bit hairy but not much. is that weird to most girls or what? i mostly shave because it's more comfortable for myself...

Thanks for the input everyone!

[dancingdoc2]

> if i'm sober i finish off in five or ten. is that normal?

Yes. Please read around the site or do a site search on the topic of Premature Ejaculation or PE. Much has been written about the matter.

Now, having said that, you will be happy to know that you are not afflicted by this; however, the fix is the same. Please read this article:

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

The difference between the two is time. PE occurs within the first minute or so and within the first couple of strokes. You are lasting about ten minutes and quite frankly this is the maximum many women report as being about the maximum length of time they can tolerate before becoming sore, bored, and, tired. So, truth be told, you are right on target and are not deficient in any way!

If you want to extend intercourse, then do so in short(er) increments with lots of fooling around and making out in between. For more information on this, please go to the Index and read the articles on the topic. If you believe the best way to achieve a climax is from lots and Lots and LOTS of stroking, then you are going about it all wrong. This is the purpose of all the making out part of the session. Devote no less that half an hour just to this before ever getting to the foreplay portion.

Lastly, stop drinking; you will enjoy sex more than you do when you do. Adopting the right methodology for making love and you will no longer have the need to drink.

> I shave it clean maybe once a week.... is that weird to most girls or what?

Probably not many of the world's population shave, yet at least in wester societies, more and more people are doing it. "Weird"? You'd have to ask the particular woman involved.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Shaving is seen by most men as somewhat 'metrosexual' - that's amongst men. Young women say they prefer it while most older women don't waste their time worrying about such silly stuff having learned there are far more important things, like character, for them to worry about. Me personally, I perfer men as they come, with fur.

5 to 10 minutes is fine for penetration but you should be doing a LOT more than penetration! Please find and read the sticky post entitled The Program and you'll see what I mean.

[its_legal@16]

aww, bless him. i'm pretty new to sex, about 3 years now, but everyone is different, i think the longest i lasted was 11 hours, but i have practised tantric sex, a lot. it's just getting to know your body and what's normal for you. I shaved i think twice, it was the most uncomfortable thing I have ever done, i got a huge rash and it was sore, but each to their own.