apologies to nuttychick and others......

[johnnymac57]

I was really drunk and may have offended certain people, I am sorry Nuttychick.

You are right, I am a screw up. I have no skills in attracting women and I have rock bottom self esteem.

I watch too much porn and have therefore lost confidence in my penis size and am more scared than ever to try sex. It is the scariest thing in the world for me.

The most important lesson I learned last night was that I am a horrible piece of work when I am drunk. I should stay away from booze.

I should just accept that I turned out a fuck up and that it is highly unlikely that I will ever have sex, yes I am jealous and angry because I am too much of an asshole to have sex. I hate the fact that I cannot get laid. I probably will never be able to tell you if I hate sex because I am incapable of getting it.

[demonbuttercup]

There are PLENTY of assholes out in the world getting laid.. just they are confident assholes I imagine!

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by demonbuttercup

There are PLENTY of assholes out in the world getting laid.. just they are confident assholes I imagine!

I am too messed up, I am really afraid of sex.

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by demonbuttercup

There are PLENTY of assholes out in the world getting laid.. just they are confident assholes I imagine!

Why do women like confidence so much? That is all I ever hear, can't they make an exception to the rule sometimes?

[Cherry Cheesecake]

If YOU aren't confident in your ability to please them then why should they be?

[Buck Naked]

Listen brother...never watch porn and compare anything in real life to it. It's fantasy. The women for the most part are "enhanced" in one way or another and the men are pulled from a very small percentage of the male population. I remember seeing that the guys have to be seven inches at a minimum. That's well above the average and these are the smallest you'll see. It's not realistic.

[EvilEvilKitten]

People like confidence because it send them the message "this is a reliable person'. Women do from time to time engage in what is known as "pity sex" so you needn't despair too much.

Stay away from the booze.
Stop watching pornography.
Stop acting like you're 13 years old and whining.

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

People like confidence because it send them the message "this is a reliable person'. Women do from time to time engage in what is known as "pity sex" so you needn't despair too much.

Stay away from the booze.
Stop watching pornography.
Stop acting like you're 13 years old and whining.

will do! except I am addicted to porn!

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

People like confidence because it send them the message "this is a reliable person'. Women do from time to time engage in what is known as "pity sex" so you needn't despair too much.

Stay away from the booze.
Stop watching pornography.
Stop acting like you're 13 years old and whining.

all I want is a shy kind of nerdy woman who needs love.

I don't like the popular kind of woman with attitude.

Maybe I need to move my operation to a library, but I hate reading.

[Charmer]

This is a speech that a father should be giving but anyway.

Grow up your acting like a little boy!
Porn adds no chemicals to your body thus an addiction to it is a sign of mental weakness.
Watching porn, drinking alcohol and sex are adult activities and should only be indulged in by adults, are you an adult? Cause your sure as hell not acting like one.

Stop drinking.
Stop watching porn.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself (no one cares).
Stop moaning its not makin any difference.

Go improve your conversational skills.
Go to gym it will give you a place to take out your frustrations.
Go increase your knowledge on popular topics (sports, film etc)
Go make some female friends (purely friends)

Do that and you will find something to value in yourself, you will gain some confidence and those things will help you find a girl you can begin a relationship with.

Your never gonna have sex till you deserve to have sex and become an adult and your not, cause a man never takes part in pity sex, a man knows the difference between love and sex, a man believes in himself and most importantly a man values and respects women as equal and not objects.