The Virgin Thread

[cico187]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

At that age, 11 to 13, who in their right mind wants a 'serious' boyfriend/girlfriend? That's certainly putting the cart before the horse.

No, I'm not a virgin and haven't been one since age 11 and I've loved every minute of life since then!

lol how old are you now?

[EvilEvilKitten]

I am ancient, thank you.

[TryingMyBest]

Well, I'm a 21 years old male and still a virgin, to my displeasure. Kitten, u may be "ancient" but I would gladly do anything to have half as much experience as you. That being said it has been ages since I have been on the site and it has become the embodiment of sex itself, as close possible, in writing; thus i deem this site the sex bible.


Child: "Mommy, is sex bad?"
Mother: "Where did u hear about sex!?"
Child: "I heard about it at school."
Mother: "Yes, sex is bad dear."
{The child begins to cry}
Mother: "What's the matter?"
Child: "At school, they told us that children come from their mom and dad having sex."
Child: "And at church the man says that people who do bad things go to Hell, I don't want you to go to Hell."
[The mother then calls the school to blame them]

(This is a real (partial) conversation between an Aunt of mine and her child. Thought it was funny so now it's posted; OCD is now happy)

[xsentos]

i am 31 and i did alot sex before hehehe

[kelly7]

I'm 19 and still a virgin. I'm ready to not be one but I can't find the right guy lol.

[EvilEvilKitten]

There is no "right guy" - not unless it is marriage. But when it is just for fun n games - almost any guy will do.

[blackknight]

I see what you are saying as I'm of the belief that "The One" does not exist and that there are probably 1000s of ideal people in each of our countries with whom we could lead fulfilling and loving lives with.

However, I don't think that "almost any guy will do" for a woman's first lover. For good or ill, the first lover affects our future sexuality.

[lnt1103]

I was a virgin until I was 28, and I'm proud of it. I'm 7mos older than the man I've dated for a year and a half and lived with for 7 months, and he was a virgin until me. Not that I believe everyone should wait that long, each person is different. But my rule of thumb is, wait until you're ready, and then wait at least another month or two. I don't regret the first act, but I regret the first guy.

In other words, 'tweens' and young teens, wake up, take a cold shower and slow the hell down. You're jailbait and you're playing with a fire you have no concept of how to control.

[kelly7]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

There is no "right guy" - not unless it is marriage. But when it is just for fun n games - almost any guy will do.

I guess you're right. Maybe not being able to find a suitable guy would be better to say. I'm sure I'll find someone worthy eventually lol.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Worthy of what?
I mean, really, important - sure, but you're not made of gold, darling!