The Four Hotspots

[EvilEvilKitten]

While the clitoris is important and is one of the four female hotspots, it is NOT the only one. Dr. Graffenburg - finder of the G-Spot - himself said that if truly aroused there is no part of a woman's body that ISN'T orgasmic. Each woman has her own degree of sensivitity and each woman knows what she likes - listen to her and modify your technique as needed.

Herewith are the four major areas that will induce orgasms in women if correctly stimulated.

1. The clitoris - between the lips of the vagina up at the top where the lips join. Very sensitive so handle with care. Use hands, tongue, whatever she prefers.

2. The G-Spot - if she's on her back, the G-Spot is two knuckles in on the roof of the vagina. Using your hand, palm upwards, curl fingertips up then gently caress using a come hither motion while also moving entire hand in and out. Using your penis/dildo, press gently upward while moving in and out. In either case this is a small movements - no thrusting.

3. The Anterior Fornix - for skilled persons only - you must have the utmost of control when accessing this area. Above the cervix, further in from the G-Spot and on the same side (the roof) of the vagina as the G-Spot. Gently treat using the penis/dildo method as with the G-Spot. No thrusting EVER!

4. The Posterior Fornix - okay you can thrust now but ONLY after she's has already enjoyed an orgasm or two so her vagina has expanded and is ready to receive you. The posterior fornix is below the cervix, way in the back and on the floor of the vagina. Press down and caress. Small movements becoming thrusting is the desired crescendo here.

It is not necessary to draw rings around your penis - so far for the G-Spot, the anterior fornix, the posterior fornix - just remember where each spot is and how much of your penis remains outside of her.

You will notice when you're there by her reaction. Watch her closely. Learn to listen to her body and hear 'her' when 'she' talks to you. Some women are not very demonstrative so look for these INVOLUNTARY signs of orgasm:

1. flushing - some women turn pink some of the time
2. hard nipples - they become erect all on their own
3. dilated pupils - the black at the center of her eyes gets so big you cannot tell what color her eyes are anymore, and she can't see clearly
4. female ejaculate - some women get VERY wet some of the time
5. shaking - some women literally shake or tremble upon orgasm

There you go. See what you can do with this.

Be advised that once a woman has an orgasm - she gets a burst of energy and is ready for more orgasms, and more orgasms, and more.... Most men will satisfy without even coming close to exhausting a woman so do not try to tire her out, just try please her. For further information please see the sticky posts entitled "The Program" and "Body Worship".

[dlb]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

While the clitoris is important and is one of the four female hotspots, it is NOT the only one. Dr. Graffenburg - finder of the G-Spot - himself said that if truly aroused there is no part of a woman's body that ISN'T orgasmic. Each woman has her own degree of sensivitity and each woman knows what she likes - listen to her and modify your technique as needed.

Herewith are the four major areas that will induce orgasms in women if correctly stimulated.

1. The clitoris

2. The G-Spot

3. The Anterior Fornix

4. The Posterior Fornix

It is not necessary to draw rings around your penis

Interesting how the number four occurs so frequently in nature and myth.
I don't think Gräffenberg discovered the spot or area, he was just the first to actually discuss it as an anatomical entity. Later it was named Gräffenberg area or spot after him. What he said about any part being orgasmic was ecoed by Masters and Johnson several decades later.

After one gets down these basics of genital stimulation he/she can begin experimenting with non genital orgasm. This requires an even keener sense of observation so start practicing your ability to recognize orgasm according to Evil Evil Kittens list of signs. Oh just PRACTICE EVERYTHING!

BTW Evil Evil Kitten I sort of like drawing rings around my penis, happy faces, WW II type aircraft slogans....

[EvilEvilKitten]

IT is quite nice how the practicing is sooo much FUN!!

[beginner09]

Umm... When me and my boyfriend have sex, like I get really really wet... Like someone just poured water down there wet... Is that normal?!? Like sometimes, there will be a wet spot on the bed I'll be so wet...

[EvilEvilKitten]

YES, normal, it is female ejaculation - go forth and ENJOY !!