Boys and Masturbation / Got questions?

[dancingdoc2]

> Having a girlfriend who lives with you, how do you people see if its right or wrong to do

This was answered in my reply on this thread.

Please read my second comment "Masturbation and love".

[timbo92]

I was wondering if there is anyone to cum more. I've already posted a comment asking this question but nobody answered it and i wasn't sure if this was a good place to put this. My problem is I don't cum very much and I didn't know if there was a way to cum more. I've heard that stopping masturbation for a while is one way but there is no way I can give that up. I have to do it. Also I'm 16 and can't buy lubes because of my age. Is there any homemade lubricants that I can use that aren't bad to use?

[Venom]

it's not bad whem i was 13 i materbated a lot everyday & now 3 years later i went cold turkey & a month past without jacking it, i went to sleep with sweats on & i had a sex dream my penis was extreemly hard & i was full of sperm all over my shirt it was horrible. my recommendation at least twice a week

[dancingdoc2]

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Originally Posted by timbo92

I was wondering if there is anyone to cum more..... My problem is I don't cum very much and I didn't know if there was a way to cum more. I've heard that stopping masturbation for a while is one way but there is no way I can give that up. I have to do it.

"Stopping masturbation for a while" is not the same as "give that up". The first is temporary (for hours or a couple of days), the second is permanent.

First-
Please pay attention to the fourth paragraph on down and through the section on "Stress Management" of my article. (Skip over the three introductory posts.)

Second-
Stay hydrated by drinking lots of liquids (water). If your urine is not clear, you are not drinking enough liquids.

Also I'm 16 and can't buy lubes because of my age. Is there any homemade lubricants that I can use that aren't bad to use?

In the U.S.A. lubricants are available off the shelf in supermarkets and pharmacies. There is no age requirement.

The most readily available lube is your very own saliva! It isn't the best, but it is free and works OK if you keep replenishing it.

You can also make your own lubricant. Refer to the jackinworld link in the article. Perhaps the easiest is to add a couple of drops of hair conditioner into a dish of tepid water and mixing. It works well, although it won't keep so a new batch has to be made before each use.

You can also use a light oil such as baby oil or cooking oil. The one caveat with any oil is that it cannot be used in conjunction with a condom if and when that time comes.

I hope this is of help. After doing your homework, please do not hesitate to ask additional questions.

[Bushidokaizen]

There is no exact age on when you "should" masterbate or what, but when you go through puberty, thats usually when boys start or find out about masterbation.

The act of it may be a sin to certain religious groups so if you are religious and they find it a sin, then they would see it as a bad thing to do cause you're killing potential sperms.

But if you're not in those or any religious groups,then there is nothing wrong with masterbation.

[Alipeewee]

Hey, um, well, first post here, hooray, so, let me just explain this little thing. I'm 15 and I've started puberty, but one thing I've found is that masturbation just doesn't feel that great for me. Its not that I'm doing it too hard and it hurts or anything - I just genuinely don't get any pleasure out of it and I've never ejaculated. I have experimented with stimulating my prostate which I'll say I did actually find very pleasurable, but, like with masturbation, it doesn't lead me to ejaculation. However, I did recently ejaculate for the first time when I had a wet dream but the weird thing is, the dream itself didn't actually involve sex or anything.

Anyway, I'm kinda just rambling now so I'll shut up.

[Wrave]

I can help as I was an early bloomer. I started as early as 5. However I do have a question, does circumsion matter?

[dancingdoc2]

> Its not that I'm doing it too hard and it hurts or anything - I just genuinely don't get any pleasure out of it and I've never ejaculated.

Pleasure and the release of sexual tension come as a result of climaxing--the combination of ejaculating and having an orgasm. If you have yet to make this transition, just keep at it and practice, practice, practice. If you have had one or more nocturnal emissions then you can climax, it now becomes a matter of developing a technique that works.

> > Being circumcised means that the glans of the penis is not as sensitive as an exposed penis with the foreskin retracted. Often the latter is too sensitive to touch and massage directly. Some fellas tolerate direct contact better than others and still others "wear the nerves down" so they can enjoy direct contact as well as the extra intensity that comes from having the foreskin forward and stimulating these nerves as well as those of the glans underneath. A person with a foreskin has more options it would seem, yet at the same time must take extra precautions with hygene.

Boys circumcised in infancy have less sensitive glans because the nerves have been exposed to the elements and constant rubbing against clothing for years. Even so, our orgasms are very pleasurable, so unless your question is academic, I wouldn't worry about one vs. the other.

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-doc

[its_legal@16]

Boys and their toys. I have masturbated longer than i can remember, that's not hard as i had a traumatic head injury so my memory is short, about 3 years tops, but yes it is very normal. piece of advice though, if you are thinking of having sexual intercourse, think it through and make sure it's with the right person, you don't want to have bad sexual experiences, as it affects you in later life. I should know.

Remember, use nothing made of glass. nothing sharp, and lube is always a good call.