The 28 year old virgin

[johnnymac57]

Not quite as bad as the movie yet. I want to fix this before I do become the 40 year old virgin. I want to sort this out in the next month. Any tips?

[goof'schik]

why, we need your story

[Spicygirl82]

If I were you, I'd sign up for one of the free dating sites out there and put on there that you are willing to have a casual encounter or whatever the appropriate option is and when the opportunity comes up, take it! Don't be afraid to message other members either.

[johnnymac57]

I went to this church as a teenager until I was 24 and they screwed up my mind (with sex) the whole sex before marriage issue. Now that I have left I am nervous of having sex, although I want to I am having trouble getting it done, because there are no 28 year old virgins in the real world (but in church there are)

I am afraid that a normal non church going girl will not know where I am coming from. I will have to tell (that I am a virgin)her before we have sex because if I don't then she will wonder -what the hell is up with this guy. Or do I lie and get found out in the bedroom?

Surely an experienced girl will know that something is off if a virgin guy tries to sleep with her?

[johnnymac57]

Originally Posted by goof'schik

why, we need your story

I went to this church as a teenager until I was 24 and they screwed up my mind (with sex) the whole sex before marriage issue. Now that I have left I am nervous of having sex, although I want to I am having trouble getting it done, because there are no 28 year old virgins in the real world (but in church there are)

I am afraid that a normal non church going girl will not know where I am coming from. I will have to tell (that I am a virgin)her before we have sex because if I don't then she will wonder -what the hell is up with this guy. Or do I lie and get found out in the bedroom?

Surely an experienced girl will know that something is off if a virgin guy tries to sleep with her?
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[goof'schik]

First off, if you want it to be a relationship and care if this woman knows more than you than you will need to tell her upfront and it's going to take longer than a month.

If you just want to lose it go to a pro, they'll teach you the ropes and won't care if you know what you are doing or not.

[johnnymac57]

I would prefer to be in a relationship, in your estimation how long would that take then?

If it is more than 6 months, then I will go for the pro option.

[johnnymac57]

What are the chances of finding a 26 year old girl virgin (outside of church) ?

Probably about as good a chance as finding Bin Laden

[Ephemera]

Why does it matter if she's a virgin or not?

You know, a lot of girls won't really care if you give them a fun night otherwise. Even if the sex is mediocre, which may not necessarily be the case, if you win them over during the date then you've got nothing to worry about.

[johnnymac57]

It will make me feel slightly better about myself. She won't be able to compare.