I'm Ready for SEX! (or am I?) I really want to do it.

[Brandye]

Read the Sticky: Am I Ready. That covers physical, psychological and social issues. The short answer is when you know exactly what to do as you you look your mum in the eye and say, "Mum, I am pregnant."

And when you have the maturity that being a day late does not drive you around the bend.

[Mrsdeepthroat]

Just cause you want to doesnt mean you need to

[soni]

hi i am 27 year old i am not feel sexy what can i do i fee hot sexy

[ohyeahbabe]

I don't think I am ready but I know I want to with my bf. I am definitely not ready for consequences like pregnancy if that were to happen.

[Brandye]

Until you know how you will deal with the possible consequences, you are not ready.

[jjurgy]

Originally Posted by Oh!Henry!

Hey i'm new to the site. I'm 16, and i feel that im ready to have sex. only im scard of pain, and he ppossibility of getting pregnant. how will i know whe i'm really ready?

You "feel" you are ready? What doe's it feel like to be ready? The first time I had sex I was not ready, yet I thought I was ready. I was with a girl 7 years older than me and my penis was so hard it hurt and when she felt that she ripped my pants off and licked my penis until it was really wet then slid it inside her. I surely didn't know what I was doing and she just drove the situation. I must have shot a load in about 2 minutes and immediately was hard again and she just didn't stop until she screamed... I freaking thought I was killing her or something. then she went down on me until I shot a load in her mouth. I left soon after that and felt dirty. I was young, dumb, and full of cum - But I WAS NOT ready at all. Think about that before you do something stupid like I did.

[Sexybaby7864]

Ok. Im so ready for sex but my boyfriend is all ways teasing me and acting like hes wanting sex. But yet when it comes to the time for it he backs down. I dont know what to do any more. Even thow i give him oral sex all the time.

What should i do?!

[dancingdoc2]

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Originally Posted by Sexybaby7864

Ok. Im so ready for sex but my boyfriend is all ways teasing me and acting like hes wanting sex. But yet when it comes to the time for it he backs down. I dont know what to do any more.

Your first step is to understand that successful relationships are partnerships. With regard to sex, the relationship is not so much what we do to each other, rather, what we do with and for each other, together. Key to this is communication. You are asking questions of us that should be asked of your boyfriend. Only he knows if he is afraid, cautious, teasing, manipulating, or simply clueless as to what to do once he should commit.

Are you ready? This thread is an extension to one of the articles listed in the Index. I recommend that you read the beginning.

I also recommend that you read the other articles under the heading:
SEX e.g. INTERCOURSE just to check and double check that you are not only ready but fully prepared when the time for intercourse does come.

What should i do?!

I also recommend that the two of you read all the other articles listed in the Index, together or independently, discuss what you have learned, and adding the information to what each of you already knows. After doing your reading assignment, please do not hesitate to ask questions should any come to mind. We are here to pay it forward.

Just out of curiosity, how old are the two of you?

-doc

[Sexybaby7864]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines, and especially the Index all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. In addition, if you click on the site's Home Page you will find even more information.
I also recommend that the two of you read all the other articles listed in the Index, together or independently, discuss what you have learned, and adding the information to what each of you already knows. After doing your reading assignment, please do not hesitate to ask questions should any come to mind. We are here to pay it forward.

Just out of curiosity, how old are the two of you?

-doc

Hes 16 im 15. We have been together for. 3 years goin on 4 years now

[raunchy gal]

Oh,wow!!16 and 15 hmm,it seems to me that you need to wait a while longer.You need to really be sure that you definitely are ready for sex before you do it.