Should I get a dildo for my gf?

[TheGoodGuy]

First of all, sorry if anything is obvious or stupid. I only know so much.

Me and my gf are 17 and 15, respectively, and we've decided to wait until marriage to have sex. We are both virgins but still participate in everything EXCEPT intercourse. We can't always be together to handle each others "urges," so my girlfriend has showed interest in getting herself a dildo. I'm fine with this but I wonder if a dildo can have any long term affects on her vagina? I'm worried that if I get her one she might use it alot and by the time we actually decide to have sex she will be "loose." Is this true, or I'm I freaking out over nothing? Also, If she uses a dildo many times before the real thing, will my own package feel less pleasurable to her? Can she get used to the dildo and when we actually do it she is so accustomed to something inside her that my own package won't feel any different? Please help.

[Brandye]

If she wants a dildo, she need look no where beyond her bedroom. The number of objects that are useful is limited only by the imagination. If she wants one, let her buy it.

The vagina is an amazingly elastic organ. The only two things that really change the shape (Loosen in your terms) are childbirth and weight gain. Her playing will not make any difference but will make her more confident in herself.

It is time to have condoms and vaginal jelly available. These situations, regardless of intent, have a way of getting out of hand. Also consider age. She is not legal most places.

[TheGoodGuy]

alright thanks