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Old 10-03-2007, 03:18 PM
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Exclamation Want to have sex with him - but self-conscious!

there is this guy we have been foolin around for a lil while. i want to have sex with him really bad but im really self conscious about my body. And it doesnt help that he has an amazing body himself. I mean hes not the type of guy im usually with. So im really nervous that my body will discust him, any idea's on how to have sex without really showing my body?
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Old 10-03-2007, 04:26 PM
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whats the point in having sex with some one your not comfortable around?
what do you mean your fooling around with him?
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Old 10-03-2007, 04:46 PM
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If he has been "foolin around" with you then he must not mind your body. I would think that he would probably deffinitely go for having sex if you want to.
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Everybody has something about him- herself that we do not like or at least wish was somehow different. With guys it is most often a penis thing. Girls have a breast thing. Yet when a guy falls for a girl, he pretty much falls hook, line, sinker, and with the parts yet to be seen as well. Don't worry. If he is with you, we wants you.
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The sexiest thing a woman can do is be confident! I have cellulite, a tummy bulge and imperfect skin, but I know that if he wants me, he thinks I'm sexy. Just know that he wants you and don't worry about the way you look. Yeah, I don't have an airbrushed, photoshopped body either, but I don't worry about it in the least when we are getting busy.
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Old 10-04-2007, 10:30 PM
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If he is your boyfriend I do not think he is disgusted by you. Keep that chin up!
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Old 10-06-2007, 02:21 AM
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If in the end you still feel uncomfortable, things can take place in the dark and/or you wear a dress or skirt, something that requires little disrobing.

Just don't become dependent on hiding yourself.
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Old 10-07-2007, 06:20 AM
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If you do not like your body then you have two choices:

1. fix it through proper diet and exercise
2. just tell him to keep his eyes closed

Males are truly not all THAT particular and if they like you as a person, they usually will accept your body as it is. The vast majority are just happy that you're paying attention to them.
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Old 10-09-2007, 11:23 PM
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if you are of a larger build thats nothing to be ashamed about, you could keep a top on or even go fully clothed like have a skirt on and no undies then go for it,
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Emo...let me give you some advice...I am not a model, I am not well hung, I do not have washboard abs, chiseled arms. In fact I dont have a very flat stomach it does have a bit of a bulge lol. The first time my girlfriend pulled off my shirt...I thought I was going to have a heart attack cuz I was just soo...ashamed of my body, but I faked it and pretended I had confidence after she said she liked being able to touch my actual body...so I faked and I would take my shirt off when we would make out after a while...she liked it, and she even started complimenting me on my body....today i stand before you confident about my appearance.

JUST BE CONFIDENT!!! fake it if you mus, and it will eventualls come to you.
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