10-02-2007, 02:42 AM
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i bleed wen i hav sex
ok well me and my partner dont see eachother for a week. but on the weekends we have sex, and towards the end of intercourse, its very painfull. when his semen comes out so does blood. at first i thort it might be 'leftovers' from my period. but its been hapning two to three weeks after my period. and because of this, we can only have sex once all weekend because it hurts to put it back in and sometimes even to walk. i also get really swollen. ive been to the doctors and the only thing they found was a bladder infection. could this be the cause?please help. he thinks its his fault!!
Last edited by tarryn1; 10-02-2007 at 02:51 AM.. Reason: really really worried 
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10-02-2007, 06:32 AM
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It shouldn't be painful...
Is it that you are drying out? and the friction is causing pain and scratching? If so... add extra lube.
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10-02-2007, 06:40 AM
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Is the blood slight and pink? It sounds as if he is going to hard and too long while your lubrication is running out. After any marathon it's tough to walk, and swelling and soreness is usual. If he slows down, paces it, uses lube, he needs to keep you excited, you should be okay. The UTI does not sound like what you describe but you can have a honeymoon cystitis...too much sex!
Those symptoms are where you have bladder spasms, blood in the urine, urinary frequency, urinary hesitation, etc. Not what you are describing.
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10-02-2007, 11:17 AM
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A lot of women have reported that if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes they become sore, bored, and tired. In addition to the above information, I would like to recommend that if the two of you want extended intercourse, you take periodic breaks, continue making out and foreplay, then reengage after a few minutes.
Secondly, if you are having extended intercourse just because it's the only way your guy can get off then you are going about this backwards. A lot of guys these days believe that the way to build to a climax is through lots and Lots and LOTS and LOTS of stroking. WRONG! Stroking simply maintains a preexisting high level of arousal while thrusting peaks this and triggers an orgasm. Intercourse should not begin until he has been brought to the brink of an orgasm (yet can still maintain control in order to move around and get into position) by lots of making out and later integrating foreplay into the mix.
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10-03-2007, 10:40 AM
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See your doctor.
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10-03-2007, 11:02 AM
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Use more lube (and you may as well make spermicidal vaginal jelly), switch to poly condoms (instead of latex) and go easy.
Also follow Evil's advice. All women should have internal exams BEFORE becoming sexually active. Now is better than not at all.
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