Oral sex q - where to cum?

[seanjohn]

hey was wondering i havent had oral yet im a guy but i dont want to ejaculate all over my girls face and in her mouth (that's bad right)
so what should I do when im about to cum

[demonbuttercup]

Tell her.
Just say I am about to cum... and she can choose what to do from there.
Some might pull away and finish you w/ their hand... others dont mind the cum...and just keep going... some LOVE it.

[cjb1981]

Yea, buttercup's right, all you have to do is tell her, and maybe tap her on the top of the head or on the shoulder too. DO make sure that you're loud enough that she can hear you I've made the mistake of mumbling it before...that didn't really turn out well, lol.

[dancingdoc2]

Depending upon what position the two of you are in, you have options.

* your abdomen
* her abdomen
* her chest
* a cloth or towel
* small jar
* bedding
* clothing

> i dont want to ejaculate all over my girls face and in her mouth (that's bad right)

This is a restriction or limit she declares beforehand. There is no right or wrong, just preferences.

> DO make sure that you're loud enough that she can hear you I've made the mistake of mumbling it before...that didn't really turn out well

This is good advise. I recommend that the two of develop some communication skills to be used between you. They can be both verbal and non-verbal. Verbal can be a word, phrase, or other utterance; non- can be a squeeze of the hand, a rapid rubbing of an area, etc., all of which convey specific meanings the two of you work out.

[tommy_tucker]

*small jar

i loled

[dancingdoc2]

Works for masturbation, also; something like what marinated artichoke hearts come in--uh, are contained in. No muss, no fuss, can be stored in the nightstand, and clean up is easy. An added benefit is that the rim of the jar can be rubbed against the Frenulum with predictable results!